Start reading reviews and pick one out!  It's just like buffet dining out there (except a little more expensive and a hell of a lot more fun).  Enjoy!

Welcome Mike, you are at the right place to get your questions answered.

First Mike, you may want to stop and evluate your personal risk before you take the plunge. Ask yourself, if I were caught doing this how would it impact my life. We are all responsible for our choices.

If you decide to move ahead, after evaluating your personal risk, then I would suggest more reading and research. Pay the $20 to become VIP member for 1 month, read your regional board everyday for a month, which will give you a feel for your local market.

Pick a well reviewed lady (2-3 pages of reviews with 8s or above, with reviewers that have written multiple reviews) follow the directions on her website to contact her, and send her an email.

The more you learn from here by reading the newbie manual, the boards, and reviews, the more comfortable and confident you will be at your first meeting.

Good Luck!

I'm new ... only 2 weeks.  Had my first experience last wednesday had my second experience today.

First thing I learned is that it is hard to get your first experience without any references.  I signed up with Date-Check (they verify the client).  I then searched their database and compared them with the reviews on this site.  I finally found one that peaked my interest and was pretty easy to setup.

Also, when contacting the provider the first time, be sure you are courteous and respectful.  That email is going to be your first impression.  I found that the more detailed the first email was, the better the response.  So be sure to include... Name, Number, Date, Time, location and duration.  Always check their website also... they will tell you what they require to see you so be sure to add that info in the first email aswell.