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I posted a thread but got totally misunderstood, what should I do?
figurehead 1 Reviews 2268 reads
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I posted a thread in a regional board.

However, people totally misunderstood me. People even thought I'm a cop. I admit that since that was my first post, there might be something improper.

What should I do? I am a newbie with only one previous experience which is yesterday.

I am worried about that I will never pass the screening process in the future.

And by the way, I want to know what info other people can know if they know my TER username? (first and last name? reviews? posts? etc..)

Thx.

-- Modified on 3/20/2013 9:39:23 PM

Eden Roc794 reads

Nobody has access to any info tied to your TER Handle. You would have had to share your real name, reviews and handle together with somebody for them to know about it.

Did you do that?

All of us made mistakes when we first started. You just learn from them!

1. You can use the report a post feature on your post that created problems and ask staff to remove it. In your request, explain why you want your post removed. The whole thread will be gone.

2. Contact TER using the Contact Us link at the bottom of the page and ask them to change your handle.

3. Be more careful with what you right next time.

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AlexandraMilw767 reads

You obviously touched on a touchy subject that I know nothing about. (Below is a link to what OP is asking about)

Here is some food for thought, ask newbies questions on this board (not Regional)  to save some of the hassle of others getting upset.  Also as a newbie, you didn't need to post a topic of how to spot LE (you ARE a newbie!) on a local board.

Also noone will know your first/last name... just your reviews and posts.

I am stepping away to let others help you as I don't know the right way of saying what I think of your post. You can do a problem report to pull the post... best though to clarify what you meant. You pull a post, but people still remember. You clarify and it is still for all to see. So I don't know what you should do.

Read Self Help area for newbies. Get p411 for screening (that will help a lot).

-- Modified on 3/21/2013 2:50:18 AM

Related Link: http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewall.asp?MessageID=292535&boardID=1...

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hiddenhills751 reads

See the link below when a newbie asked a simple question what does bbbjcim means and this guy Ruaturtle thinks the poster is a cop. If you check the threads on the LA boards, the board is unfriendly to newbies.

My advice stay off the LA board until you have some reviews associated with your handle. The entire thread will move down the page and eventually get to page two.

Related Link: OC thread.

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Silkstalkings645 reads

First of all I do not blast every newbie on the boards! Do some research before you make a statement or quote like that!

Beacuse you wanna give suggestions or advice to newbies that is your perogative.

I will not.

Posted By: hiddenhills
See the link below when a newbie asked a simple question what does bbbjcim means and this guy Ruaturtle thinks the poster is a cop. If you check the threads on the LA boards, the board is unfriendly to newbies.

My advice stay off the LA board until you have some reviews associated with your handle. The entire thread will move down the page and eventually get to page two.  

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clarence37792 reads

Don't ask for advice and then argue with every veteran who gives it to you. I read the whole thread, and IMO you come off as pretty arrogant for a newbie.  But I don't know what you mean about passing a screening process, no escort is going to refuse you because you made a questionable post on a discussion board.

It's also probably wise to keep your posts simple at first, You posted a very long note with a lot of detail that made those guys say "Hmm, he's got an awful lot of info for a newbie". Right or wrong, that's how a lot of them took it.

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Panthera12839 reads

is a red flag. That is how you started the thread. You also called them aliens and mentioned LE. You made more statements then questions.
The LA community is very protective and their reactions were understandable.

Your first review has already posted, and I was a little surprised that a newbie with no references was able to book with them. As far as screening in the future, if your review is legit you should already have a reference.

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London Rayne826 reads

Yea, I can see why is was not well received. You made a lot of asinine statements such as seeing girls on a weekdays, as if cops don't eat donuts on Sat. and Sun. lol. I don't know the LA scene, but where I live it's less risky going with an indy vs. agency.

There is a reason why some of the bookers of K dolls are so damn strict...some are underage, but that happens everywhere and with indy providers too, so it's not just them. Many of those women are worked to the bone seeing 10 guys a day as well. Sure, you get a cheaper rate, but who is the money actually going to and how much does the girl even get? I have always wondered about that.

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Panthera12678 reads

But your reply should have been under the OP.

Way to stereotype too. You have never been to one and have no clue about the financial arrangements or otherwise.

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London Rayne720 reads

with victims of abuse and human trafficking, you can then spew your shit. Until then, please don't be so naive to assume this stuff does not happen, and often. Get a clue! I did not say ALL K girls, just like I did not say that indies can't possibly be victim to this either, but to act as if this shit does not happen, is beyond stupid. You should do more research on who knows who, before you accuse me of such stupidity. I did not pull these things out of my ass. Why so defensive about your K girls? As if I need to ask lol.

Like you, I can also read reviews and talk to clients of these women...most everyone admits that 5 a day is LOW volume for many of them.

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Panthera12901 reads

I had seen hundreds of K-girls in my time in LA and other cities over the years. I have known many K-Girls personally. I can tell you that the 10 guy a day for the average K-girl is a myth perpetrated by the media and hookers who have too much time on their hands.
If a very popular K-Girl wants to entertain that number of guys in a day, she certainly can. However, these young ladies are not superwomen and if they string 3 days of 4 guys per day, they are spent for a week. Only an idiot would subscribe to the 10 per day for weeks or years on end.

So yeah, you are pulling more then beads out of your ass.

PS: Business in the K-Girl market is down mainly due to economic reasons, but they are by far the best bang for your buck and without drama.

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London Rayne781 reads

I even said I found it absurd that any woman could service that many men in a day, and the majority proved me wrong. I called bullshit on even 5 a day several days a week, and again, I was proven wrong.

Fact is, neither you nor I know 100 percent how many guys any hooker bangs in a day, which is why I am not STUPID enough to say that it was an absolute for ALL women, or even all K girls. Why so uptight? Pimping sucks this time of year? Heh. The fact that you have taken such a personal interest in your "more bang for the buck" only further reiterates my point, but not about the numbers. No wonder you use an alias.

It does not take a mathematical genius to subtract, and when the fee is less than freaking 300 where most agencies take half...hmmm. Yea, that's worth it. You turned a simple post of mine into your personal pimpster bs, and you want to avoid drama? LOL..right.

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BigPapasan744 reads

...M.O. in L.A.  Harpman60, who is the most trusted expert on K-girls, has stated that K-girls see up to 9, 10 or 11 clients a day.  

You don't believe he said that?  Well, here's a link which you might have found had you bothered to do a little research.  The funny thing is that London knows more about K-girls than you who has supposedly seen hundreds of K-girls, despite the fact that she doesn't post on (or rarely reads) the L.A. board.



-- Modified on 3/21/2013 9:07:33 PM

Related Link: Do more research Panthera

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Panthera12675 reads

Funny that you have to quote some else to make your point.
Harpie will be elated that you called him the most trusted expert.

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BigPapasan648 reads

...have that reputation because I'm not afraid to go against the tide of their slavish sycophants.

Harpie will be elated to know that you called him an idiot.

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bubbleshorse911 reads

If it's any consolation...my attitude regarding the threat of personal info leaking is: I DON'T CARE.

I got tired of being held captive by what a provider or review site or whomever may or may not know about me and what they might do or not do with that info.  

I used to stress about it all the time.  Kept me from writing honest reviews, standing up to rip-off providers, etc.

Until...

I got tired of being a p*ssy.  (Also, if I'm a p*ssy why should I pay for it?  I should just f*ck myself, right? LOL.)

Here's the thing: I don't work in the public sector and I'm not married (don't even have a girlfriend), so trying to extort me would be pretty useless.  I mean the worse thing that would happen if my friends saw pics of me with a provider plastered online is they would smile and high-five me.  And I might even use my newfound infamy to pick up girls at clubs.  I'm not even joking.

So bring it on!  :)

PS -- Really, don't stress it.  I know it's easy to think you're being targeted or that an army of spies are working behind the scenes to bring you down.  But you know what?  You're not that important.  Not to insult you, but 99% of guys are NOT important enough to be so closely monitored.  Unless you're the governor or Tom Cruise.  Are you???

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ramc75737 reads

Why does the term seem to be uniques to the west coast? I'm guessing its a Korean escort? Just wondering, thanks.

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ramc75707 reads

heard of any other term like it. C(hinese)girl, R(ussian)girl, etc. Is there something unique about Korean girls?

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randomdeebag859 reads

Why does KPop get its' own name?

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