Bacteria, yeast can produce very bad odors. If the stench was so bad she may have been getting an infection rather than just a bad "not fresh" condition from normal daily sweat. Either way, at that price range you would hope she would be squeaky clean. If I really suspected a medical issue I probably would mention tactfully to her. If lack of hygiene I would play it off like you did. I try to avoid these situations by either booking her 1st appt or seeing a low volume provider when posible.
I had similar situation several weeks ago. I had an early appt with my regular, she got food poisoning from the night before so had to cancel. Being too horny I got an agency girl last minute for late after noon date. There was no "stench" but a definite not fresh and latex like taste. I switched to my fingers a little bit while I told her "I haven't had really good bbbj in awhile" so we got away from daty that way. I had no plans any way to see her again, just wanted to get off.
I'm pretty annoyed by this. Saw a really well reviewed lady last night...everything was going smooth until I started to DATY. That's when I got a horrible stench. It smelled like a mix of urine and something else I can't quite describe...just something gross...and maybe latex? Whatever it was...it wasn't good...at all. I'm guessing she didn't wash up before a previous session.
This type of thing instantly pisses me off! I'm pretty confident she hadn't showered before seeing me, there's just no way she could have with what she had going on down there. When I arrived at her hotel room I hopped in the shower and found it strange that it looked like nobody had been in the shower for several hours...everything was bone dry.
This wasn't some random backpage girl either, this was a highly reviewed girl at $500 per hour with about 30 reviews - all 9's and 10's!!! I can understand that hygiene can be an issue with civies...when you're out at a club dancing all night, and you bring back a girl, she might not be squeaky clean....but for fucks sake when I am shelling out $500 I expect you to take a fucking shower before you see me. Total buzz kill and it ruined my night as I could never get her stench off me. I could still smell her hours after the session...pretty ridiculous.
And yet, as bad as it was, I just avoided DATY and tried to make the best of it, and didn't mention it to her...because I guess I'm a pussy and don't want to hurt her feelings, or ruin the vibe even more. And now, I really want to leave a bad review for her but I feel that it will hurt her career...and yet maybe she deserves it. Obviously won't be seeing her again, but I guess I should have just manned up and request that she hop in the shower? Even the fact that I would need to ask is a buzzkill for me.
So she could use that as retribution.
You don't owe anyone anything as far as information, so don't do it out of obligation. But realize that doing it out of spite and revenge is seldom good.
Maybe contact the provider and be very careful about how you word this?
Or, the way I would handle this...just say it was a loss and move on.
since you're a newb, my advice just move on. Chalk it up as a learning experience and realize when you see a well reviewed provider, there are no guarentees that things will go as planned.
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Sometimes things happen when ladies aren't as fresh as they could be. It's a main reason I like to hobby first thing in the morning when I can. She is at her freshest she is going to be all day, the odds that a dude was with her just before you see her are less, etc. but it is a downside of the biz you just aren't going to be able to control so get use to that fact.
Some of our provider friends do not have average working class life styles: fall asleep to Leno or Letterman, wake up with Good Morning America, cup of coffee and off to work. Some of them are out partying (or working) til dawn, catch some shuteye and then their new shower-fresh day begins at 2 PM. If they ever worked in strip clubs, some shifts don't start until 9 PM or 10 PM. If they're still on that kind of schedule, their "morning shower" isn't until 8 PM.
Morning, noon or night, she should be clean and fresh so we don't have worry about or experience this.
(Yeah ... I've experienced it ... blech ... and it was someone at the higher end of the scale at a very well known agency. Gack! That is THE most memorable thing about the whole session. Powerful, in more ways than one.)
My $300 an hour ATF and my $240 an hour regular both taste amazing when I go down on them. I don't know where you are or what the going rate is in your neck of the woods but what happened to you is pretty sad. Really no excuse on her part. I don't care what her reviews are or what her rate is, not being freshly showered for your client is a cheap-ass whore move and I have no patience for that sort of thing. I have to agree with CS however, writing a bad review will probably do nothing accept cause problems for you. Chalk it up to experience and move on...
Bacteria, yeast can produce very bad odors. If the stench was so bad she may have been getting an infection rather than just a bad "not fresh" condition from normal daily sweat. Either way, at that price range you would hope she would be squeaky clean. If I really suspected a medical issue I probably would mention tactfully to her. If lack of hygiene I would play it off like you did. I try to avoid these situations by either booking her 1st appt or seeing a low volume provider when posible.
I had similar situation several weeks ago. I had an early appt with my regular, she got food poisoning from the night before so had to cancel. Being too horny I got an agency girl last minute for late after noon date. There was no "stench" but a definite not fresh and latex like taste. I switched to my fingers a little bit while I told her "I haven't had really good bbbj in awhile" so we got away from daty that way. I had no plans any way to see her again, just wanted to get off.
a bad review will more than likely make things not so nice for you. Best to chalk it up as a bad investment, and move on. Yeah, it sucks what happened to you, but there have been several possible reasons mentioned as to what happened. It's hard to say what any of us would have done had that happened to us, but I think the less said on your part, the better.
Better luck next time.
Swim
I have gone down on some women right out of the shower, and thought...wtf, really? I just saw you shower! If you want to be an ass, write a review, but you should have simply stopped doing it or asked her to hit the bath tub with you. I can't explain how men and women can't possibly know they smell like shit, but it certainly happens. Even diet can affect the body's PH. You should have just got YOURS and left. You're not required to go down on a provider. What also could be an issue are certain numbing creams or spermicides women apply before you get there...taste like shit!