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I wasn't possitive he eamiled her with ideas for the next session.I read only that he was offering to write a review and giving her an 8/9 as the rating and that she had none as of yet not a bunch of 10/10's .
Maybe she does not want to be reviewed at all .There really are girls who are all you could want and more who have no interest in reviews.They are UTR and want to be.She maybe one of them .These girls do not at all want to be reviewed known or in the public eye even if that public is limited to our audience.She is simply not interested in taking her business in that direction at all .So she cut you lose like a bad habit.Just what I think no crystal ball,Good luck ,Kendall

I had a session two days ago that was everything I ever hoped it would be and more (and I'm kind of kinky, BTW).

At the end of the session she told me I was now eligible to email her and tell her what I would like to do in the next session. Feeling wonderful, and with the help of some alcohol I did as she said.

Today I sent her another email and asked if she would like a review since she didn't have any yet. I suggested it would be a glowing review and I would rate her an 8/9. Having read these reviews for a long time I thought that was pretty good.

Well, she answered back and basically told me to go to hell and never even contact her again as she was going to be recording her phone calls and would report me for "harressment".

Okay, I give up. Admittedly, I am a cold, calculating asshole but how is it you can give someone orgasms one day and the next day you are utterly contemptible?

I think I get it. And I am heartbroken. I may not ever recover. I would even consider suicide but I still have a half a bottle of wine left.

It appears that the this misunderstand can be traced back to the bottle(s) of wine:

1) After a liberal consumption of liquid inspiration, you sent this lady a (rather detailed, I would guess), description of your, self-proclaimed "kinky" ideas for the next appointment.  I might guess that she found those suggestions offensive and, even more so because she was not under the influence of alcohol.

2)  I don't know what her average review scores are, but I doubt an 8/9 would be offensive enough to provoke the reaction you got, unless of course she has pages of 10/10 and she was insulted.

3) Rather I suspect that what happened is as follows:

A.  You had a good appointment with the lady and she enjoyed her time with you.  Enough, in fact, that she asked you to e-mail her some scenarios for the next appointment.

B.  Inspired by Bacchus (the God of wine and insanity), your response was probably kinkier than she anticipated.  She probably read it and did not reply, hoping that if she ignored you... you would get the hint and go away.

C.  Still upset by your email, when you wrote to her again, this time about a review, she let you have it.

I would suspect that she is either not as open minded as you thought she was or your scenario was far kinkier than what a normal provider would accept.  I won't even guess what it was.

As for suicide, just think of all the poor parched people in China who would love to have a nice bottle of wine to drink. Waste not, Want not.  
 

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what the hell did you propose?  A threesome with her mother?

An invitation to tell someone what you would like is not a license to throw all rules of social decorum out the window.

Just like when someone says:  "How are you doing?"   This is not license to bend their ear for an hour with all your woes.

Sometimes people just say things to be kind.

what had you asked her about? maybe you offended her  in some way.

there are plenty of ladies out there, that will rock your world. And while asking permission to write a review is good form, I would recommend  not telling an escort how you would evaluate her.

I wasn't possitive he eamiled her with ideas for the next session.I read only that he was offering to write a review and giving her an 8/9 as the rating and that she had none as of yet not a bunch of 10/10's .
Maybe she does not want to be reviewed at all .There really are girls who are all you could want and more who have no interest in reviews.They are UTR and want to be.She maybe one of them .These girls do not at all want to be reviewed known or in the public eye even if that public is limited to our audience.She is simply not interested in taking her business in that direction at all .So she cut you lose like a bad habit.Just what I think no crystal ball,Good luck ,Kendall

I guess whether he discussed activities may be up to debate, but another area of thought is maybe it's a lady that is completely unaware of TER or ratings in general? Imagine if you're oblivious and this whole ratings phenomenon isn't brought up in the proper way? You'd think, who the **** is this guy and what is he up to? If you watched the Girl Friend Experience movie, with the scene from the board manager of The Erotic Connoisseur, that's the creepy feeling someone could get from this...

1. you really are that kinky and it was a little more then she was ready for.  (better to find this out now sow you can relax with a lady that more compatible with you and be yourself, sounds like she wasn't it)
2. Congratulations! You have met one of the lovely ladies that thinks she is so beautiful to every one that she should only be given a 10 for looks.  This personality type will generally feel the same about performance and will be angry with less then a 10.  This regardless of if they meet TER standards for rating a 10 in performance or not.  I believe the word I am looking for is narcissist.  There are ladies out there that act like this.  Just read the boards.  
That being said had you been able to pm a fellow hobbyist about her prior to your meeting (this all assuming she already had reviews, this is a situation that may have been avoided)  
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