Hi,
I saw an ad in cityvibe with some escorts that I would definitely want to try. There doesn't seem to be any reviews for the escort or the phone number. On the website, they are listed as independent. My problem is that being a newbie (only 2 prior experiences with a good agency), I'd like to avoid Taking One for the Team. What should I ask in my initial contact with them?
From what I gathered, I shouldn't ask about specific acts. But multiple pops & daty are very important to me. Is there a nice way to ask without them getting upset with me?
Any advice would be appreciated.
you wanna' take a gamble yet remove the risk of gambling? Sorry, ain't gonna' happen.
You see an unreviewed lady you take your chances.
You ask those questions... and I'd be worried about any lady who cares so little for her freedom that she would answer.
I'd have to recommend not trying an unreviewed lady until you feel you're a veteran at the hobby.
If she's unreviewed, she's either new or a rip-off. If she's a rip-off, you'll be screwed, and not in a good way.
If she's new and you're still new-ish, then it's not going to be as enjoyable a time. It's a little like being 16/18/whatevever again and trying to figure out how to take off her bra. Fond memories, sure, but not something to be done when there's a time limit.
My advice is to keep an eye on these particular ladies while staying with well-reviewed providers. If they start getting some reviews then you'll know if they're rip-offs or not.
(And no, there is no way to ask about multiple pops and daty over the phone/email without "upsetting" any reasonable provider)
As other have said, unless you have a spare $$$+ you are willing to flush down the toilet, it's never a good idea for a newbie to see an unreviewed lady.
I know of many experienced hobbyist who have much more money then me, who seem to enjoy the challenge of finding new, quality providers. However, these guys have another $$$+ in their back pocket, and established contacts with many quality SP's, who may be able to accomodate a short notice appointment to help ease the pain of taking one for the team.
Again, as others have said, their is NO polite way to ask what services might be offered by one consenting adult to another until one consenting adult has paid for the other's time and companionship.
If you must do this foolish thing, there is one thing you can do to prevent you wasting you money. Post a message on the regional board where the lady is located, asking if anyone knows about her. If someone does, and if you are a VIP, you can PM him for more details. Unfortunately, this does not always work - the responsible hobbyist is just as aware of the legal risks as the ladies, and will shouldn't do anything that might land a friend in trouble.
Hope this helps,
jazz32
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I learned the hard way, I got FS but I was a victim of "upselling" and the provider left as soon as we I was done. I "lost " $600.00 for something that was only supposed to cost 300.00
Dude...I have never had any luck with cityvibe girls...or for matter any girls that have limited or no reviews on TER...
There are plenty of well reviewed providers that can handle most special requests...
To sum it all up...it's a roll of the dice..
I just visited Cityvibe, and Eros searching for well known providers from my home city, and found more than a few great, well reviewed, ladies I have seen, or want to see.
I agree that a strong track record of reviews is key! Unfortunately, the lady has little control over her TER profile, for the most part this is set by the first reviewer. Yes, the escort malls have lots of shams, but there are some great SP's that advertise on them.
Become a VIP and do your homework!!!