starting to get frustrated with a provider im trying to contact.  she answers and the conversation went like this.  i asked if i could see her the following day.  she said incall or outcall?  i said incall.  and she hung up!  WTF?  i dunno if she was trying to test me to see if i was an LE or something but i think hanging up like that after i said incall is crap.  so what gives with providers like that?  noted she only has ONE review... so how did that dude get ahold of her and set something up without the provider freaking out?  did i do something wrong or what?  any advice would be great!

what is going on in her head, maybe her phone got disconnectd, maybe she thought you sounded wierd, whatever her issue is, just move on. Don't waste your time, find someone who is well reviewed. meaning way more than one review.
Good Luck, I'm sure the right provider is out there for you.

you did nothing wrong.  Maybe she does not want to do incall for somereason but if so, why ask?   As a Newbie, you should be looking toward well reviewed providers.  1 review is not anywhere near enough.
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I was talking to a provider a while back and I thought the conversation was going okay, but then she said I was "wierding" her out and hung up.  Some providers may be more paranoid than others, its hard to say what is going on in their mind.  Move on because you only have one shot at making a good impression.  If you blow that, then forget about it.

Life in hobby-land is always a bit la-la at best, so chalk it up to inherent weirdness and try another number.

Operators are standing by for your call.

Standard advice:  See only well-reviewed ladies, and don't mess around with TOFTT as a newbie.  As for why she hung up, who the fuck knows, and maybe you don't want to...

Any number of things could have happened, and then when she was able to call you back, she might not have been sure if it would be okay to do so. I'd say try again, unless it weirded you out or you don't want to, and then move on.

I got hung up on in a similarly strange manner yesterday afternoon by somebody I'd been anxious to see, so I called someone else and I'm not regretting it a bit the morning after!

Hopefully it'll result it my first review getting published.

this is normally a private thing girls do. SO maybe her roommate or someone walked in and she couldnt continue the converstation. Its not that huge of a deal. I personally always email to arrange everything and then call just to confirm when I head that way. But dont trash her too much... who knows what happened. And if she only has one review she might be new and very scared! Best of luck to you!

If she freaks out that easily over a innocent question I imagine an appt. would be like walking on eggshells.  Sign me up for that.  Move on to a quality lady who is not already showing signs of cracking.   You did nothing wrong, but recognize a warning sign and move on before you waste your money.  If your new here you should not be seeing a girl with only 1 review anyway.  IMHO