why you are having problems, but I am a white guy and I sure had trouble getting dates when I got back into the "hobby" after a couple of years away.

Are you a member of any other verification site like P411?

I had my old reviews, but they were deemed worthless. It was harder getting back than it was when I started back in 2006.

I am also not sure why some providers don't want to see AA men, but there are a lot that do not discriminate as well.

Good luck and keep trying!

I've read posts from a few providers who say they don't see African American men. It doesn't sound like a racial thing. It sounds like their experience was that African American men in general are a bit more rough with intercourse than other guys. They get sore.

A couple made references to size, but I don't know if they were joking or not. I've never read anything conclusive as to size of AA men versus others.

One provider who comes to mind immediately won't see guys with an erection longer than 6" (or is it 6.5"). I thought that was odd.

African American? Race is not really a difficulty to over come so I was wondering if you were assuming that is why they are declining you. Are they actually telling you they don't see black men or just not responding to you? I think it would be pretty unusual for them to say that unless they specifically say no black men in their ad in which case to send them a request. I think being a newbie with no references would be more of an issue than race. I did a quick check on p411 and found 25 newbie friendly providers in Huston and read a few of the profiles and none say anything about a race preference. I know it seems like there are a lot of providers that seem to prefer older Caucasian men (neither of which is me and yes I get a lot of no responses) but there should be plenty that don't have a problem with race. I bet if you are a VIP member on TER you will even get some messages from providers in your area saying they are ok with race just from this post but if not I would recommend posting a question and being a little more specific on how you are searching to the regional board or post an ISO (in search of) request. When I have done this I usually I found I was doing something wrong and some providers even sent a PM either recommending specific providers or offering to see me.

Sorry for my little humor but this has been discussed before and it is a touchy subject. I see that on BP ads often but are you having that issue with the top 100 ladies in your area? If you are mostly seeking on BP try looking at the ad board on here.

a good deal of providers do. Jackasses and bad clients come in many sizes, shapes and colors, and to reject a whole group of people based on race seems silly to me. If some providers have had extensive bad experiences that they feel have correlated with race, I guess I understand that they wish to reject the ethnicity they deem problematic from the get-go. From what I've seen, though, providers who make it known that they don't want to see black men work in areas such as the south that racism is heavily, heavily institutionalized and normalized- and I do think that much of their trepidation stems from personal prejudice. I'm sorry that you're dealing with this. I will say that the more references that you gather, the easier it will be to book reputable providers, regardless of your race. I travel to Houston infrequently- maybe once a year- and would be happy to see you while I'm in town if you're into my look and have good refs.

So you'll always be welcome back here in New England.

We love ya all!