I am a newbie in this hobby and I only used escort services twice. I feel like I am getting less than I paid. I only got 30-40 minutes max although I paid for an hour. Makes me think to get less time in the future.
Should I get pissed off next time? Or is this pretty much the standard that I do not know?
they aren't the type who shortchange their clients? Also, are you saying that you cum early and don't get a chance to cum again, or something else? It may be that they don't allow 'Multiple Shots'.
I just discovered this website and I didn't read their reviews before meeting them. I only had their pictures and meeting an escort was a fairly stressful event for me.
OK about the cum part: It's something else. I deleted this part twice because I am a little ashamed but I thought posting it here might help others. Here it goes... I didn't even cum in my first experience. Everything was going fine at first, but after 15-20 minutes I lost my erection. She seemed understanding at first but then she left early. Maybe I should say something but it was not easy at that point.
you take two simple, if not all quick and easy, steps:
1. Sign up for VIP membership so that you can read reviews in full. This will tell you whether or not you can count on a provider to give you your full money's worth.
2. Read the newbie guide found in the Self-Help Center (click under the Life Perserver icon back on the Newbie Board main page). Also read and search through some of the discussions on this board. It will answer most of your questions.
Good luck!
PS: No need to be ashamed about ANYTHING, least of all failure to cum or keep an erection. If you think you could use some advice, check the Erotic Highway board here.
its your time, however you want it spent (within her paramaters, of course). You losing an erection does not justify her leaving, unless you wanted her to at that point. Assuming you didn't, it is her responsibility to stay and try to make the rest of your alloted time enjoyable.
If she decides on her own to leave early, you are certainly due a partial refund. She broke the implicit contract.
Nope I definitely didn't want/ask her to leave.
About the partial refund: I wrote that off as a sunk cost to this hobby. She knows my address though. Maybe she will mail a refund check. Who knows?
a full hour. His chances of getting it are the same.
I've also heard of hobbyists who believe they deserve to stay over the hour until they cum, without paying extra. Maybe they're typical of this provider's clientele, and she just counts this as payback.
on the ladies you visited. Since you are a relative newbie, stick to well-reviewed providers that have been reviewed by experienced hobbyists.
What you experienced is def NOT the norm you should expect from a quality provider. That's why I assumed you did not do much research on the ones you saw. If you pay for an hour, you should expect to stay with her for the full hour. You won't necessarily be playing all the time (recovery), but to get booted out in 30-40 minutes is not right.
Swim
You assumed right. I found this site after my experiences.
Hope things go better for you in the future. If you have any questions, feel free to PM me.
Swim
When i first started hobbying, I researched for 2 months and had short listed two providers in Phoneix ( I was there for a business trip). Both had excellent stellar reviews and were pretty pricey( 500/hr). I booked both of them on two different days. My first exp ( I haven't written a review on her, something that I wish I had done) went bad. The provider showed up nearly 2 hrs late, she was drunk and smelled of Cig smoke. I had booked her for 1 hr. For the first 30 mins, she did not allow more than a hug and wasted a lot of time talking nonsense and giving me unneeded advice as to why I should have booked 2 hrs instead of one hour. Then she proceeded with the main events. But I was so repelled by her attitude that I could not get hard. She then screamed at me and asked me what my problem was as I was not getting hard. That made me end the session as I did not wish to be paying for getting humiliated. Needless to say, my expecations of Hobbying crashed down and I felt like giving up hobbying. Since I had already booked with the second provider, I did not want to cancel last minute and kept my appointment with her next day. I am glad I did. She was total opposite of what my first exp was and was everything that a guy looks for in a provider. I did post a review of her(my first review). This regained my faith in hobbying and since then most experiences have been very good to exceptional for me.
Looking back, I feel the first provider took advantage of the fact that I was a Newbie and maybe if I repeat today with her, my exp might be different, however no way I am going back to her.
Also never book with providers who offer 30 min specials, they always are in a rush as they like to generate as much volume as possible.
I see plenty of ladies that offer a 30 min. session, even though I have never booked less then an hour. Not one of them after I learned how to screen has left early with out offering a refund and only one had to leave early as an emergency came up. Just got to do your homework. Doing your homework is key to finding quality provider at all price point and session lengths.
I've also had good 1 hr. experiences with escorts I've researched who also happen to offer 30 min. rates. However, you should be a lot more dubious of those who advertise 15 min. deals. I'm always seeing complaints that they're all about the quick buck, and anybody who pays for a longer session just gets the same rushed treatment. Apparently, the 30 min. and hour rates are there mainly to make the 15 min. rate look better. And to fleece anybody clueless enough to pay.
Many guys only want a 15 min quickie. They want a bj first thing in the a.m. and that's what makes the 15 min blow-n-go perfect for them. Or they want their nut before going to a party elsewhere so that they can last with the lady they find at the party.
Sheesh; I do wish you not-so-newbie guys would stop thinking that any sex outside of an hour is no good. We ladies understand that you're asking for the fantasy that you're making love when you take an hour or more. That's all well and good; we enjoy that inside that hour, too.
But a quickie is pure sex, simple and just as satisfying if that's all the guy wants. No cuddling, no schmoozing; just sex. And off we both go to wherever we're heading next.
When I had a partner (hubby or SO), he and I would often have a quick one before we headed off to our respective works! We weren't looking for anything but the relief that sex gives. Later that evening, we absolutely had lengthier fun, but when we were pressed for time and about to explode, a quick jump against the hall wall was perfect!
But, to answer the OP, if you paid for an hour, you should have gotten the hour. You've gotten a lot of good advice here, especially re researching the ladies.
But, please, don't discount a 15 min gal just because many of these guys don't do it.
Can't wait for a "15 Minute Blo-N-Go" to come to a strip mall near me.
I've had similar experiences with well reviewed girls. It seems like once you cum, all bets are off. Many put their panties back on and will chitchat and some just consider your time up once you come. Sometimes what I'll do is pay for the half hour and ask for the full hour later if I want more. Just make sure she offers mulitiples in her hour session.
Sometimes I say I want to make sure I get a full hour of playtime (minus 5 minutes of business, putting clothes back on, etc. You shouldn't be taking up more than an hour of her time).
FYI, this is for $150/half hour girls. If you're paying $500/hr IMHO you shouldn't have to worry about making sure she stays the full hour and you should come as many times as you can.
As far as losing your erection, many girls will take it personally and think you don't like them. She's going to feel embarrassed & unwanted and she'll be heading for the door. It happened to me once and I had to email her and tell her it wasn't her fault. She felt much better after I did that. (It partially was her fault, she mentioned her BF and I got a mental image of some 20 year old dude waiting downstairs in his car).
Should I get pissed off next time? Or is this pretty much the standard that I do not know?