To me there is a combination of things. On the top of my list would be making it hassle free when a date gets setup. The rest would have to do as personality, which I am sure is a really good one. Being able to have the nerves calmed for some is a big for them as you already know.
I would agree having another provider vouch for would be excellent with no reviews so far. I feel it is just a matter of time before you have plenty of reviews and understand it might be a little frustrating when getting started. You got going for you being a provider already. If you feel that a date went really good, it is fine to ask for them to write a review for you....when considering a provider who doesn't have reviews yet.
I understand that a lot of it is a waiting game; in a review culture it makes sense that hobbyists would gravitate towards providers who, y'know, have reviews. I'm also not in a desperate situation and feel good about holding out for a review that is representative of all that I have to offer, as opposed to soliciting a favor from a client who isn't himself interested in reviews or review culture.
That said, what are things a provider could do to make you feel comfortable enough to actually book an appointment? Is it simply a matter of being present on the boards? Having girls with reviews vouch for me (obviously ones I know personally)? The aim on my end is always to make my clients feel as good as possible because that's the point, and I'd hate to think that someone would spend the moments leading up to to a session feeling trepidatious.
For context, I have been UTR for years and have watched enough of my friends build very solid reputations and businesses through TER that it no longer made sense to not take the plunge. I'm absolutely confident in my abilities as a provider, just trying to figure out how to communicate that to all of you 
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... when there's no reviews is when a provider I trust vouches for the new provider.
Second best would be having a hobbyist with an excellent review track record give a referral, if he knows the provider even though she doesn't yet have reviews.
May I make a suggestion? You said you have friends who are providers. Perhaps one or more of them could refer a client to you whom they trust to give fair reviews, and who have solid track records as reviewers. That would give you a starting set of reviews from respected reviewers.
board so hobbyists can get an idea of your personality. Also post an ad every 7 days on your regional ad board using different pics and creative verbiage.
Patience is a virtue and sometimes it takes longer than you would like to get your business off the ground. Late summer is not the best time as families are winding down with vacations at the start of school. The Thanksgiving to New Years time period is another time when business in traditionally slow.
There are two things that might get me to consider a provider without reviews. 1. Posting here at TER, especially if you convey some personality. 2. Have a professional looking website with some photos. You're already doing these things, which is a great start. I would still hesitate because I don't have a good sense of your menu or reliability, which is something that reviews tend to reveal.
Very helpful feedback! You have definitely given me ideas about how to update my site. Thank you!
Confidentiality is an integral part of this line of work. Someone using an encrypted email service tells that her clients will not be outed due to a lost or stolen device (or if she gets busted for that matter).
It became obvious that almost all the girls asking for real name, ID, etc were clueless about using a software for securily erasing files or encrypting data on a drive. If you can somehow convey that your clients' anonimity is of paramount importance to you and you are somewhat tech savvy, guys might find you even more interesting.
This is so important! Thank you for being the final push I needed to transition from gmail to an encrypted server
Being classy and pleasant goes a long way. No sane guy will take a chance on you if you prove yourself to be a nasty short-fused skank in this forum or other social media outlets.
On the other hand, the collective IQ of johns is not far from a lemming's. They are like a horde of mindless zombies animated by pussy-magic. Maybe you are imagining some sort of common sense and rationality in them that don't exist.
At this point in my life I'd rather be appreciative of the really great connections with strangers I have, as opposed to disappointed because I expected something baseline profound. Though I suppose that mentality doesn't serve at all on the other side of the coin... lol
All paid professionals classy and pleasure during paid sessions.Clients show up without money see what happen with paid professionals.. NO professionals doing this job for free and got to keep paying client coming back... A lot good professionals without reviews.A lot of clients don't like to write reviews on paid adult websites because it's illegal business and clients don't want to tell world paid for professionals. Professionals trashing other professionals bad business.Don't see legit companies trashing other companies in business world.Trashing professionals trying to run away business from other professionals. Play and pay safe.
I would trust the recommendation of a well reviewed escort or one with a p411 listing. You can get your own free p411 listing with the recommendation of a client (but not a provider) with at least 5 okays -- or a review from someone with at least five reviews to his name.
I would also trust a p411 listing that you are safe, even without seeing a review.
You could also offer time limited discounts on the forums you want to break into (you have to be careful to also offer the same discount on p411, since it's a rule you can't undercut your p411 rates.)
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If I am ever reaching out to someone who is new to this or doesn't have any reviews, I find that communication is absolutely key when it comes to getting to know someone (as it is with any kind of relationship) I always get jitters when I'm intimate with someone for the first time, especially if its with someone I've never met before. But if I contact you to set up an appointment (even if its for something a couple of weeks down the road) it would be nice if we could talk every once in awhile over the phone. That way I have a chance of getting to know you better and vice versa. I'm fully aware though that phone calls cannot be explicit in your line of work, but a simple text that says "Hey Good morning! Hope you slept well...I'll call you after work" does wonders for ones spirits. Especially for hobbyists like me who are single and are missing out on that kind of connection in their daily lives. And its also important that if you are willing to go the extra mile for your clients that you shouldn't be willing to turn every service into a micro transaction. Sometimes, the best providers are the ones who do things out of the goodness of their own heart and can empathize with the people they spend their time with.
I mostly agree with you here.
It's absolutely important to make sure that my clients feel considered -- I think about them when we are not together, just like I do with any person I have a connection with. But as a provider who is considered "new" despite a lot of experience in the industry I have to be conscious of instances where people think they can use a perceived lack of experience as a means of getting more without properly considering my time. Obviously the last thing I am going for in my interactions with clients is a transactional-feeling experience, and I'm generally happy texting or chatting occasionally between sessions because I enjoy my work and my regulars. But in my experience the only clients who have ever NCNS'd on me were the ones who needed a lot of phone calls and texts and emails even though we had never met and hadn't had a chance to build an authentic connection.
This isn't at all meant to imply that this is what is happening in your situation and obviously YMMV on either end. But it is a thing I try to balance. xo
.. such as some of the things you've mentioned, as her having a presence here on the board. If she stated that she was very girl-friendly... that would get my attention and make me more eager to meet her. There is also that "spidey sense" that gives you a sense if someone is sketchy or shady or might be LE. That gut feeling goes a long way in helping to determine whether I reach out or not.
Alot good hookers without reviews.A lot of clients don't like to write reviews on hookers on adult websites because it's illegal business. Alot hookers with million reviews is not good in illegal business.....
First of all no one lady here has a million reviews. Secondly, you seem to like it here so go with the flow Ms. Fancy! BTW welcome back! 
Steph XO
Reviews tell police clients paid for illegal services and a piece of evidence for paying for illegal services.Pay to play.NO freebies with professionals. Hold up postie with name and date in the picture. websites make hold up driver license with Faceshot.Sweetie everyone like here that why all on boards. Professionals marketing business.Most professionals come back to business...
I have seen many ladies without any reviews.
There are other things I look at tondecide if I want to see someone if there are no reviews, and here are a few things that would make me comfortable seeing a new non reviewed lady.
1) if it's an agency girl and I have had good sessions with other ladies from the same agency, then I make the assumption she will be good.
2) a referral by a trusted provider or trusted hobbyist.
Lacking either of the above then it's:
3) good communication between me and the provider. A lot of established providers don't like a lot of back and forth communication. They want you to make a date request and give them what they need for screening and that's it. Too much back and forth communication will make some consider you a time waster. That's all fine, and I'm good with direct communication to set a date if I have enough other info through reviews and such. However with a new girl with no reviews, that back and forth communication is essential to me. I have seen many new unreviwed ladies, after having a bunch of back and forth texts or emails. It gives me a chance to feel her out (and she is probably doing the same) and in the end it comes down to a gut feeling if I want to see her. I can learn a lot through this back and forth, and get a sense of whether she is worth seeing and whether I will enjoy my time with her. Another thing is that LE, and scams/robs are also less likely to engage in a lengthy conversation.
I don't have any reviews yet, funnily enough, I just don't think people want to share. It doesn't bother me, however, I do think reviews help more than harm. The ideas listed above are great though for gets who may be nervous about seeing ladies who don't have a large online presence/reviews.
is worth it's weight in gold. If you have such a regular by all means, if not ask one of your provider friends, maybe one reviewer each from 2 gals. Stress you want an honest review. The first reviewer sets up your TER Profile... and reviews can not come from your IP or you'll get banned! I hate when first reviews state she offers thngs she doesn't.
The second thing I look for is good pictures. Clear. An assortment of dress & undress. Not explicit. OK topless, yes but no more. Taken in total I want to be confident before I arrive at your door, what you look like naked. No less than 6 from different angles... to 12 or 20. No more than 1 butt picture, please! I want to see more of you than that, LOL!
To me there is a combination of things. On the top of my list would be making it hassle free when a date gets setup. The rest would have to do as personality, which I am sure is a really good one. Being able to have the nerves calmed for some is a big for them as you already know.
I would agree having another provider vouch for would be excellent with no reviews so far. I feel it is just a matter of time before you have plenty of reviews and understand it might be a little frustrating when getting started. You got going for you being a provider already.
If you feel that a date went really good, it is fine to ask for them to write a review for you.
Real face pics, proof pics (like holding a name and date written on a postie), P411, add language that seems genuine and not canned...
Proof pics went out with the rise of Photoshop and other widely available photo editing tools.
Real face pics, proof pics (like holding a name and date written on a postie), P411, add language that seems genuine and not canned...