I'm looking to make sure that every appointment made will cater to what each guest enjoys and and is willing to participate in (i.e: one person may enjoy being licked from head to toe and another may find it a huge turn-off). I really do not want a cookie-cutter routine at all. This way I would be able to better prepare myself and tailor my appointments to accomodate each individual. I would like to ask everyone's opinion on the better methods for gathering this sort of special information without crossing any lines?

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If they provide their TER handle, reading the reviews they've written will give you some insight. In addition, if they have a P411 or Date-Check profile, that's a good place to find their likes and dislikes.

If none of the above is available, hopefully you have the gift of discernment. For instance, with none of the above available, within 1-2 minutes, I can almost always discern the gentleman's desires and proceed from there.

Otherwise, you could ask while checking references. However, most ladies...especially if they've only seen the gentleman once or it's been a while ago...will NEVER remember. UNLESS...it was a horrific experience.

Sometimes I don't know what I like until a lady does it wit me.  Don't be afraid to be yourself and don't get too hung up on trying to be all things to all men.  Some guys may tell you exactly what they want and some will just say "surprise me!"

The atmosphere in your room and your attitude are much more important, to me at least, in setting the mood for a great appointment.

You also got some great advice from Paris, she's one of the best!

All good suggestions... I find that I'd rather have the lady, unless she is VERY versatile to begin with, mostly stay in her range of comfort and pleasure (what she likes doing). It helps make the 'experience' of the time be what I like it to be - feeling as genuine as possible.

I'm not going to say that I believe that in every encounter the lady is dying to be with ME, and is getting off because of me (I'm too much a realist). However, I want to at least imagine that for a moment of time.

With experience (maybe you can do it now) you'll know how to appear genuine when doing things outside of what you might normally enjoy.

If you're truly a horny and kinky gal willing to try anything... go with the flow, and it's OK to ask (at appropriate times) if somethings OK.

For example... you might not want to spring a prostate massage on him as he's nearing his peak, unless you know him. The caveat, is some guys would love that, and ultimately, you need to use your super sensitive provider sense to tell what's not too much, and is just enough over the line to make him beg for more.

and good things will happen, unless the client does not *know* what he wants or has a poor personality.

You can't *make* every session a great one - it takes "two to tango"

Trust me on this though - every session has a life of its own. They are all "personal".

The more BFE a client is willing to bring to the session, the more he will enjoy your GFE.

Every meeting is unique...  even with old friends.  One Fav (not TER reviewed, UTR) was my first successful meeting 4 years ago.  We have essencially no time limits & we chat & visit have a snack together.  I think each meeting self tailors to how we are each feeling but it's always good.  
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Based on your responses, I believe I have nothing to worry about at all and should be fine in that aspect. I thank you all for your input!

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