I called ten escort's numbers listed on CV and left messages when that was an option.  My message just stated hey and my name and number.  Where can I find info on calling protocol and etc.?  I did not receive one call back... thanks!

When I've had to leave a message for a first contact I usually say something to the effect of "Hello! My name is so-and-so. I saw your ad on blankity-blank and I was hoping I could meet you. I'll try calling again later but if you'd like to call me back my number is whatever. Thank you!"

It's worked for me so far. It's polite, succinct, and gets it across that you're a serious client and not a flake who just likes to phone pretty providers.

Don't forget to let the lady know what times it is ok for her to call.

Oh for 10, not good. I'm gonna guess out of the 10 some of the escorts had an email address. You might want to try the email approach. Remember, be a gentleman if you email someone. No references to sex, just day, time, how long you want to see them and incall or outcall. Also offer the lady your references. Don't be a tire kicker, ladies get plenty of those type of contacts.

Thanks for the responses.

Well I am new (as in never had an escort) and responding to ad's on CV (That is how I found this place). I have no references yet.

My message was as follows: 'Hey Angelina (or whatever her name is), this is R19 and I'm calling to say hi.  Give me a call at 555-1212.'

Keeps from playing phone tag.  As others have said, read her site and provide the info requested in the 1st e-mail.  If you aren't comfortable with the info she is asking for, skip and move on.

You only indicated you were saying hi. Not good. She wants to know if you want to see her, not just say hi. If you want her to call back, you must tell when it's ok to do so, otherwise most girls will just delete your message. They are not going to take a chance and call you at an inopportune time.

It would have been better to tell her a day and time you want to see her.  That also helps her know you are really interested in some play time, and she can let you know if she is available at that time.

Since you have no refs, you should consider joining a verification site like DateCheck, Preferred411, or RoomService2000 (RS2K for short).  Check around in your area to see which one is most prevalent there.

CityVibe is not exactly the best site to go trolling for an escort.  Start here and only go with well-reviewed ladies with reviews by hobbyists with several reviews.

Swim

thx for the advice. I'm single so I can take calls and I should have been more specific.

even if you're calling because you're wanting an appointment in the next few hours. Plus if a lady is not in a position to pick up the phone, you could be really put off. Email gives you the opportunity introduce yourself, to give her the info she needs, and let her know you're really serious.

I would recommend sending a well-written email with all of your screening info to the ladies you plan on seeing in a week to month long period. Make them aware that you're interested and even though your availability may be short notice,  you would like to know what works good for her. Consideration always makes a good impact.