I'm still new having recently met with my first provider. It was an Incall. I'm considering trying an Outcall and was wondering a few things about it. I've never even booked a hotel room for any reason before. Can you book the room and get your key card and whatever from the front desk and then just leave after the date or do you have to check out at the front desk again? And a general question about an Outcall date, is it up to the provider to keep track of time during an Outcall date? Not trying to get extra time out of anyone but if they voluntarily stay a bit later without any mention of it extending the date, would that be on the client or the provider? I just don't want any misunderstanding. I know it could vary person to person but what's the general consensus if there is one? (And I would personally consider staying late tip worthy so I'm not super cheap or anything like that!)

Thanks all

Most hotels will automatically check you out at the check out time if you've vacated your room already. If you're really worried about it you could call them the next morning and tell them you've left.  
I typically keep track of time not super close but if it goes extremely past however long our appointment is, I feel it's my responsibility to let them know our times up and if I'm available I can stay longer for x donation...  or if im not able to stay longer that I've got other obligations I have to get to

leave the key in the room and shut the door... and front desk will check you out first thing in the morning (:

Im available to keep you company when you do.

Whenever I book a room, I always request a copy of my hotel bill upon check out.  I want to make sure there aren't any charges I didn't approve.  With that said, in most cases, you may check out of your room early without notifying the front desk.  Being a former hotel owner, I always notify the front desk if I check out early, so they may clean the room and re-sell it to another potential guest (if they are in need of rooms).

Providers are expected to keep track of their rendezvous time, but many of my dates have set their alarm clock, so not to take advantage of my time.  Agency providers will be strict with their time policy, and if they aren't...their agency will start blowing up the provider's phone, to make sure she is safe and also to get extra money.  As an indie provider, I'm not a "clock-watcher" as my reviews state, and I usually go a few minutes over the booked time...but, no more than approximately 10 minutes.  If you want to extend our rendezvous, I'm always available because I never book more than one rendezvous a day = I am truly a "low volume" provider.

if you have an SO at home, in any case.

Some hotels will mail the bill, and you don't want that showing up at home, do you?

It happened to me and eventually ended up with me being divorced

We have this new thing called email, Fish. My letter carrier is merely a conduit for junk mail to get to my garbage can. Hotels are more than happy to save the postage.

if there's a drop box for keys near the front desk, use that.  No one at the front desk is going to bother you about why you've chosen to leave.  If someone is indiscreet enough to ask, just say, 'My plans have changed."
As to who is responsible for the time on an outcall, it's no different than incall.  Personally, I do feel responsible not to let things run very far over and am kind of a clock-watcher despite being a john.  I never want to presume on a lady's time even if it's ultimately her responsibility.  When the hour is up I'll generally say, "Well, looks like our time is up."  Then, if she wants to spend a little more time it's up to her to either do it or ask for more money to continue.

But you never know and besides, what if the SO gets a gander at your email sometime

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1) You don't have to formally check out. Just leave your keys on the dresser, and throw the covers on the floor to make it look as if someone has slept in the room.  

2) If the provider goes over time... well, always be mindful of her time (that is a rare courtesy that will earn you valuable loyalty). However, whether or not you should feel obligated to compensate her depends on a few things: 1) Your intent, 2) Who initiated whatever activity took up extra time, and 3) Whether or not she has dropped any getting-ready-to-go hints, and your reaction to them

If the two of you are chatting and having a great time, and all of the sudden you both look at the clock and it's an hour later than you'd realized... you shouldn't be on the hook for that time.

However, if, say, you ask to meet her for a drink and then linger for a while w/her at the bar... then take longer than you thought in the bedroom... yes, it's courteous to compensate her for the entire time spent. Even if she tells you not to worry about it. (Especially if you want to repeat with her). Remember, she's obligated to humor you, even if it just seems like she's going with the flow and having a great time.  

Also, if she's been repeatedly saying things like, 'Well, this has been so nice, but I really have to...' and you're countering with, 'Oh, just listen to one last song!!! By the way, do  you want a back rub???' Then you are totally on the hook.

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What if your addy is something like [email protected]

lol... but using gmail would be the first mistake.

Don't leave no evidence in the room.Clean up and leave.