Is there a particular reason why so many provider websites say "I only see gentlemen over 35" as opposed to any other age? I thought it was just a personal preference thing the first time but I've seen it pop up a lot. And as a newbie under going a quarter life crisis it's left me a lot less to choose from.

You'll find lots of prior discussion about this, and there are other reasons at times but the key is always that men over 35 act more mature and responsible and many gals would rather not put up with the hassle of guys under that age.

I am only 32 and have been hobbying for last 10 years.. What I was 10 yrs ago and what I am today are totally different people. Go read my recent reviews and compare them with some of my older reviews.  

Even today many people would make a case that I still need to mature in certain areas.  

Just because you are below 35 doesn't mean you can't get laid. There are plenty of women who will see you. You just need to carry yourself like a mature guy.



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on this very board have proven that theory inaccurate.I have seen much maturity from our under 30 guys here in relation to older men.  As long as you're legal, I am all for it. I have heard younger guys are rougher, don't know a woman's body, are looking for discounts, etc. I can say, I have not experienced any of that. Also, keep in mind many providers are well into their late 30s and 40s, so being with a guy who is 20 might make them feel like Mrs. Robinson lol. If I had a son the same age of the hobbyist I was about to meet, it would probably give me the creeps.

Younger, and especially younger good looking guys, also tend to grade harder in reviews. To a 60 year old man, that 40 year old provider may get an easy 9 or 10 from him, but may only get a 7 from a guy who can get women what look better than her for free. Though few will admit that, it is certainly true in many cases.

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If he told the parents a gal was coming over, why did he have to have her leave through a second story window?  Wouldn't the parents wonder where she went?  That said, what kind of a moron invites a provider over when his parents and siblings are at home?  And that to me reeks of stupidity, not immaturity!

Older men are wonderful lovers too!!

I had to consult google to understand that reference. I wouldn't be opposed to trying that down the road, but not to start off.