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lunch date?
notime2lose4u 6 Reviews 2724 reads
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I have a question about asking a provider for a lunch date. I know there's no such thing as a "free lunch", and would not ask for one.

I wanted to see if someone could share some wisdom on if this is a good idea to meet a provider who only has one review, and it's not on this site. The provider is on P411, eros, e.com and not on BP.

Myself, like others on the board (who's city is in the "other" category!), do not have a lot of talent to choose from and would like to meet other local talent and minimize the risk at the same time.

just some food for thought. trying to think of ways to minimize risk of LE.

Thanks in advance for your input!

date where you have lunch and then play afterwards.  However, significant risk since she is not a well-reviewed provider.  You have to go with your gut.  Sometimes it is better to wait for a better/more safe opportunity.

Not sure why you think a lunch date will "prove" she's not LE.  The only face-to-face encounter which will prove it is when you show up with the white envelope.

There's your bait and switch, your cash and dash, your physical threats from her or an accomplice, your big dramatic scene, your blackmailing once she has your info... the list goes on. Arranging to meet in public before retiring to a more private location does nothing to reduce your risk of running into any of the above -- or LE for that matter.

What will? You already know the answer to this: meeting with someone who is well-reviewed or is otherwise highly recommended by someone you trust. :)

That said, many ladies love lunch/dinner dates, and may even offer a particular rate for it. Others aren't into it, and will balk at the idea, for their own reasons (privacy concerns, don't enjoy talking that much, are breathetarians, etc.). If it's not clearly stated either way, it definitely is okay to ask! Be sure to clarify, as you have here, that you do intend to compensate her for the public time as well.

I don't think that a lunch date is a good idea if you are just trying to eliminate the fear of LE...it is effective, I can guarantee that no LE is going to sit at a lunch for an hour, and then migrate to "play" time to catch a guy soliciting.  It brings them into uncontrolled environments that no LE would ever go into not to mention the waste of time.  There are easier, less expensive ways, to substantially eliminate LE concerns.

With that said, meeting someone for lunch prior to a P4P engagement is a great way to establish a connection and, for me, has always led to better play time.  So, if you are going to do it, do it to enhance your experience not to screen LE.  As it has been said elsewhere, most providers I've met love that idea and do offer decent pricing for a lunch/dinner date.

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