Again I have made it to the time when the provider does her screening on me only to have her not email or call back. I thought it might be just poor luck, but I thought or what two of the providers I have seen had said to me that they normally do not see clients this new to the hobby. Is there anywhere that someone can find if the lady is known for no calls or should I just chalk it up to being a FNG and roll the dice somewhere else?

Sorry you are having trouble getting started.  Posting replies to threads on here will get your name known.  Post on your regional board, so the locak ladies can get a feel for what you are like.

Did you check her website?  Did you tell her you were a FNG?  If you had told her you were a newbie with no references, she might have worked something out with other screening info.  There are girls out there who will sometimes make allowances for new guys, if you come across as a good guy.  You might try looking for a provider with a lighter screening method for your initial contact.

Good luck and happy hobbying.  Remember, we were all FNG's at one time.

Swim

Why not register with RS2K until you get enough visits in to get rated on TER?

Swim's advice is right on.  There are ladies who specialize in showing new hobbyists "the game".  Read your local board and you will soon figure out who especially likes to see newbies.  Stay away from the 20 yr. olds for the time being.  As Swim said, we were all first timers at one time or another.