I am a 50 y.o. newbie and am hesitant to visit providers under the age of 30. What is the best way to find providers over 30? Would also appreciate comments from providers as to their preference re age of hobbiest.

There is a age field on search reviews. Some ladies don't care about age of hobbyist and some don't see guys under 30. Just depends on provider.

Not necessary a newbie but I am in the over 50 category and share your concern about the under 30. Perhaps in part, because I am too self conscious on how it would look like if we are seen in public, such as on dinner date.  I don’t know if the ladies have the save feelings being with a much older Gent in public.  But we are just hobbyist and they are professionals and probably known how to handle it better than us.  You can find the age included in the TER posted reviews and often on her web site.  From reading the many post regarding this question most ladies do not discriminate with respect to age.  If anything it seem there is a slight preference for the more mature gent over the young buck.

A LOT of guys prefer providers over 30, myself included.  Some escort malls even have an over 30 category.  As mentioned above, you can restrict age in the TER search, but reviewers often make mistakes when guessing a woman's age.  Of course, they're more likely to err younger than older.

Whatever you're looking for, I think it's important for any newbie to stick with a provider with a lot of reviews.  This way you get a more complete picture as to what type of experience you can expect.  Of course, you have to be a VIP member to get full access.

Regarding your age, I don't think you have anything to worry about.  I've VERY rarely heard of a provider who expressed a preference for younger guys (under 35 or 40).  What's much more important is how you treat them and being clean.

Most of the Independent ladies in the business are over thirty (I do not know anything about agencies). The vast majority of these ladies are single mothers.  So, it is not difficult to find ladies over 30.  Actually, reliable Independent ladies UNDER 30 ARE hard to come by. (No pun intended).  The Independent ladies DEFINATELY prefer older guys. No doubt about that. They find them more respectful and more generous. So, don't forget to be those two things!!  Good Luck.

Over 30, under 30... whatever you decide, you should
look at overall reviews, comments about attitude etc.  One thing I do is e-mail the provider with my reference information, general background etc.  Read the replies carefully - I make decisions to have a session based upon those replies and any phone conversations prior to setting up a date.

age they claim to be. There are VERY VERY few providers in the 21- 26 range. Many lie about age, weight, and sometimes bust size.

ter search age  36-40
etc.

I used to lie about my age. At 38,I figured screw it, I couldnt remember how old I was from ad to ad. 32... 35... 31...

I started advertising my real age and started occupying a new realm of hobbyists.. It was a great new years resolution not to lie about age any longer.

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