Well, I don't know what scenario would lead to a lady forgetting to take a shower... especially if she had an appointment on the way.. but if for some reason she did, the time should start after she's ready, as she was not properly prepared. Now, I have heard that some guys request that the lady take a shower... even if she's just showered(I guess peace of mind?).. in those cases, the time starts when she arrives.
This is the opposite question of the earlier thread about showers.
I know this is not technically a newbie question, but it's a good place to have this topic.
This scenario is for the providers.
For the sake of this scenario, let's say that the appointment time was set for one hour.
When your scheduled appointment arrives on time, then you realize that you haven't taken a shower for a while. You may have gotten sidetracked with something prior to the appointment and you didn't want to make the hobbyist wait, so you went ahead and let him arrive on time.
Then you explain to the hobbyist that you needed to take a shower before the appointment starts.
Do you start the appointment AFTER you have showered and prettied up?
Or
Do you still start the time at the original scheduled meeting time? Do you make an effort to make up the "lost" time due to your showering and dolling up?
Or, you don't care and still charge the hobbyist your shower time and still keep the allotted time?
I recently had a provider that had to take a shower after I had arrived because she had arrived late at her incall location from a previous committment (not related to the business) and didn't have time to shower up, so she let me in and told me that her shower time will not be used against me.
Common sense is that close encounters of the hobby kind differ from the close spontaneous encounters between couples who know each other and are with each other for a while, one night stands, or sex on a date, of the civie kind so that extreme cleanliness is a desirable requisete of both the provider and the hobbyists. I wish I had a nickle for every profile I'd read on P411, or website that reminded me in nearly the same words as my mom did when I was very small, how important it was to scrub all over, that not being very clean when meeting other people is always undesirable, to clip my nails (although for very different reasons when I was 5), use deoderant, lots of soap everywhere, and scrub some more. And we are reminded to scrub in those same mommy words on countless websites (and of course I agree with the cleanliness--just as being on time and being considerate) it's common sense and may get you rewards as well.
Serpius raises a very good question, but for me the answer is simple, and not in the realm of rocket science:
If the provider has circumstances that make her late, or a chore unrelated to the hobby held her up, or traffic that all of us wrestle with held her up, or she might have sandwhiched appointments too close together and there might have been a communications error with client #1 (SMS won't work in a garage/phone won't work in a garage and the all important classic Call #2 for definitive directions to the incall can't get to the client on time as he tries to make the phone/SMS work) whatever requires that the provider might need to freshen up more than a quick minute or really take a shower:
1) Explain to the client that the provider cares about being "clean and fresh" just as she wants him to be. 2) Inviting the client into the shower with you sounds like a nice way of spending that time. 3) Don't put the client "on the clock" until you are freshly showered. 4) Possibly pour the client a glass of wine if you have it or offer a drink while you shower.
Doing this will win the gratitude, appreciation, and respect of the client, both parties will be freshly clean, and with a good experience should pave the way for repeat encounters.
Well, I don't know what scenario would lead to a lady forgetting to take a shower... especially if she had an appointment on the way.. but if for some reason she did, the time should start after she's ready, as she was not properly prepared. Now, I have heard that some guys request that the lady take a shower... even if she's just showered(I guess peace of mind?).. in those cases, the time starts when she arrives.
I just met a provider who took a shower between rounds. She was quick and I took one as well knowing her obsession with cleanliness. It probably took her 3 minutes and me the same. She didn't add time but it was well worth it. Now if she disappeared for 10 and didn't add time I would have felt shorted.
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