From reading here, it seems like the basic formula is DFK, followed by BBBJ, followed by some MISH, K9, etc, then more BBBJ and possibly DATY if there is time. What gestures or moments make an experience truly memorable?

I, for example, love to give and receive a really good massage as part of my experience.

However, it's important to note that it's not so much the what, but the how, that really makes an experience memorable.

Unfortunately, words fail me when trying to give dimensions to this, but I know it when I see it.

I think that mutual chemestry has a lot to do with it.

While acronyms "happen" ' - they are not the core component of a wonderful experience.....

meeting a lady with whom you have chemistry is what makes a wonderful experience.

Chemistry is to an extent "made"

Be upbeat, friendly, confident, outgoing, giving, complimentary, sensual, appreciative

and the odds are you will experience good chemistry -

after that, simply relate sexually in a natural fasion, and whatever happens will likely please you, and form a wonderful memory

This os of course ASSUMING that you have done your homework in advance and chosen a lady whose appearance, rate, and normative services appeal to you....

A great experience is the result of two people letting go and allowing themselves to get into each other.  There is no real formula. The acronyms and the order in which they occur are both irrelevant if the chemistry is there.

lady I am with are what turns me on.

It's the passion and intimacy that makes it special.

That's what sticks in my mind.

I'm always amused by you guys that are looking for a  real GF in a session.  You sound like overly sensitive women. Most of you are laughed at when they are counting the money.

Have a great weekend!

If you want to call some body a pussy drop the alias pussy

Different strokes for different folks I guess!

I could care less what they think of me when they are counting the money. All I'm there for is the sex. The sex is better when two people are enjoying themselves and not just doing a job or renting a pussy for an hour or two.

I'm sure that you will never figure that out but thanks for the laugh!

their loss.....

For me it's more if we both click. Looks help but to get that "it" factor aka have chemistry.

A lot of guys may not feel the way we do but that doesn't make them misogynists by default. Some guys just prefer sex without the emotion.  That doesn't mean they are treating the ladies badly they just choose not to explore the emotional side of sexual satisfaction.

Their loss? Well I would be inclined to agree but it's different strokes for different folks. Choosing to be detached doesn't make you evil. Granted there are plenty of real bad guys out there but there are also enough "nice guy" psychos to go around as well.  Don't paint with too broad a brush.

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but I make an effort to establish rapport with a lady, to allow her to feel comfortable with me.

I appreciate your point about generalizations.

My comment should be taken to reply specifically to the alias person to whom you responded....

Mysoginist? maybe not. However, I am of the *opinion* that most gents get out of the sport what they put into it. If they are cynical about the ladies, this is often a part of a cycle that begins with the way they *treat* them.

Just my opinion.

Cheers

GTM

Being wanted, desired and appreciated during an encounter.  
Satisfaction from pleasing the woman.  
Evoking all the senses of the body to make it a whole body experience.  
No unpleasant distracters such as bad breath or bad body scents.  
Some intimate time before departure to share a little of our human self.