Guys I gotta be doing something wrong or not understanding. When the hourly rate is advertised for escort service, what should I expecta that to cover?  If I want sex, should I say I want to fuck before we get started?  Further, should I expect the advertIsed donation to be the amount or should I ask if there will be additional money needed to be paid. How do I make my wishes to have sex clear over the phone?  I hear over and over not to discuss specifics on the phone. I want to be sure what its going to cost for FS so I know to bring enough $$ or to pass.   Lastly, what kind of phrases are you guys using to say you want to fuck?  Seems a little crude saying it that way but apparently I'm being too vague.

Are you seeing highly reviewed ladies with lots of reviews? As a newbie thats what you should be doing so none of this will be an issue. Do you have a VIP membership here? Its worth its weight in gold so make sure you get that as that gives you the details as to what happens bcd with the lady. It also give you an insight into the guys that reviewed her, with all their other reviews as well. You should absolutely NOT discuss any type of sex act with her over the phone. After you are verified, and after you are together, the lady at some point may ask "So, what do you like?" At that point you can discuss your sexual likes and dislikes. If she doesnt mention it at that point, you shouldnt either. Give her a chance to feel comfortable with you and this may include 10-15 minutes of chit chat time. She knows you are there most likely for fs so dont sweat that. Any well reviewed lady will have a website or some form of ad spelling out her rates. If her rates are unclear in any way, it is generally accepted for you to clarify her rates but dont ever connect the rates with any sex acts. There are no phrases and you dont need to say anything. She knows why you are there.

I just checked your reviews! You saw one lady who had no prior reviews, she did not look like her pictures, yet you stayed anyway. Then you gave her 950 bucks for a hand job! You saw another lady who had two mediocre reviews before you saw her and you gave her 600 for a blow job! Her rate on her eros ad says 300. Her rate on her ter profile says 200. Where did the 600 come from?

You are in San Diego. There are tons of great providers in San Diego that give full service for an all inclusive rate, that is less than you have been paying for mediocre service that did not incllude full service. If you want to be sure what it is going to cost for FS, then see ladies who are well reviewed! The reviews will tell you what you need to know. You should not have to use a phrase that says you want to fuck. When you see the right ladies, they know why you are there. What you need to do is search and read reviews and find a lady that is your type. Look for well reviewed ladies. (That does not mean one or two reviews.) Since you have recently submitted reviews you should have VIP membership here, even if you didnt pay for it. Use it to search the reviews. Also look at the San Diego ad board, and the san Diego top 100. There is no reason you should be getting upsold or seeing ladies who use false pictures, or gettting less than full service if full service is what you desire!

And read the self help manual!

The understanding is very clear with an escort.  You pay for sex.  Whether they dress that up as companionship or GFE or whatever...the bottom line is your money in exchange for her sex.

You don't need to get into details.  If you have any questions, do a search on the girl and read her reviews.  Most escorts have a flat rate and that's what you pay.  It's different if you are trying to get sex from a bodyrub girl--that usually involves a big tip.

NEVER communicate this stuff over the phone, or you can expect to be hung up on.

Thanks very much.

Thanks. I will read the manual.

Thanks

You are being very unclear. You are asking what you are doing wrong without really saying what it is you are doing. Who you are contacting, how you are finding them, what they are advertising that they do and for how much, how it is you figure it wouldn't include sex. I mean really other then trying to guess at it from your reviews you didn't give any info.

Sounds almost like you are contacting a girl, assuming it doesn't include sex, showing up and throwing a handfull of cash in her face and saying do whatever you want to for this.

Not all providers offer full service, as a poster above pointed out. Most FBSM providers do not have sex, but some do. If you see "L3" that means sex. L1 and L2 are hand job and blow job endings.

Thank London.