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BeautywithBrains See my TER Reviews 428 reads
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.....in your profile, but filling out your profile is, in my opinion, very important.  It provides me with an idea of whom I might be visiting with.  Most of my dates include a lot of social time, and it is nice to learn about, a gentleman's hobbies, drink preferences, etc before our date.   I also read his clothing, and scented lotion preferences, as many gentlemen, even though they will shower afterwards, do not like lotions, or perfumes.  

   I do not like to be around gentlemen who smoke, as I have allergies, etc.  Also, I don't want smoke lingering in my incall location.  

   I always make sure to read what is important to him in the area of kissing, etc, as I do not offer Greek, and if that is a gentleman's favorite, I will find a way to address my concern.

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

ROThornhill31295 reads

I'm a complete newbie, but I've read enough to know that verification is important for everyone concerned. So is privacy. At the same time, I know providers want to know something about any potential client. So on P411, should we disclose our full names? First name only? Handle only? Photo?

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MissLizzieBeth565 reads

I might get a lot of hate from other companions for this but if I were you I wouldn't put my full name or photo on P411 if I was on the other end.  Maybe your real first name?

It's been documented time and time again that law enforcement has infiltrated P411 and I think a full name or photo is just too risky.

You can always use the "notes" section of your profile to indicate that you are willing to provide your full name and a photo upon request.

I'm sure some of the guys will be along soon to offer their opinions ;)

Happy Hobbying!

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ParanoidSam764 reads

WOW.  I had no idea.

Posted By: MissLizzieBeth

   
 It's been documented time and time again that law enforcement has infiltrated P411 and I think a full name or photo is just too risky.  
   
 Happy Hobbying!

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DJ1985566 reads

When some guys get busted they spill their guts and give up every thing to LE in the hopes of cutting a deal, including their accounts and passwords. When P411 or the other sites get wind of it the accounts are shut down.
Remember, if you can find a site so can they.....

Posted By: ParanoidSam
WOW.  I had no idea.  
   
Posted By: MissLizzieBeth
 
     
  It's been documented time and time again that law enforcement has infiltrated P411 and I think a full name or photo is just too risky.  
     
  Happy Hobbying!

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RedHetaera460 reads

There have been some, er, "interesting" contacts lately claiming to have come from here.  Be careful; eyes are everywhere.

Cautiously,

*Maureen*

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swimtrekr427 reads

Give what they ask but don't offer extra info.  One thing in their favor is that their servers are not in the US, but in a country where this activity is legal.

LLAP,
Swim

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Senator.Blutarsky388 reads

...I would not disclose my full name or post a photo, but I would answer the profile questions which give the gals an idea what you like. Your p411 handle already has your first name as part of it, no need for more than that IMO. I do use bio portion to give the gals an idea of my physical appearance (height, weight, etc.) as well as an introduction to give them a sense of who I am. Just my dos centavos.

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BeautywithBrains429 reads

.....in your profile, but filling out your profile is, in my opinion, very important.  It provides me with an idea of whom I might be visiting with.  Most of my dates include a lot of social time, and it is nice to learn about, a gentleman's hobbies, drink preferences, etc before our date.   I also read his clothing, and scented lotion preferences, as many gentlemen, even though they will shower afterwards, do not like lotions, or perfumes.  

   I do not like to be around gentlemen who smoke, as I have allergies, etc.  Also, I don't want smoke lingering in my incall location.  

   I always make sure to read what is important to him in the area of kissing, etc, as I do not offer Greek, and if that is a gentleman's favorite, I will find a way to address my concern.

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

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truu1378 reads

You should fill out all the things and write a paragraph about what you are like. Some ladies will read it though it seems less and less have read mine of late.  

Ladies should know, that just because someone says something is really important it doesn't mean they are seeing you for that service. I assume that most guys are also reading the reviews of the ladies and not just using P411 solely. With the new system that doesn't give a clear idea of what is offered guys would be smart to use both the site and TER. I've never had a truly bad date doing so

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charevans319 reads

Once you get a few oks, photos and whatnot are not very important. Putting a face photo on the internet to me is a problem waiting to happen, I will never and wouldn't expect a gentleman to either. Do answer the questions like perfume and what beverage you like. We don't need 8 paragraphs but a sentence or 2 about your personality or likes can be a great ice breaker.

A couple of times it has been slightly awkward that I offer to bring wine to someone who does not drink at all. One didn't answer my offer of wine clearly and I opened a bottle for him only to find out he said he wanted me to drink, alone, he had been in recovery decades. No fun to have a glass and not be joined.

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Nick-Danger348 reads

No photo but I do have some of my likes in my P411 profile and find it nice when a provider takes time to read it since it gives her an idea of what I'm looking for. Then again, not that many do.

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