Hey guys,

I'm thinking about finally seeing a provider for the first time.

I came across a lady I'd really like to see (incall hotel, 8 TER reviews) and she requires "light screening." Does anyone happen to know more information about this? I really don't want to go through one of the verification services since (a) I don't have job (currently finishing up dental school) and (b) I don't want to leave a paper trail behind. I'm hoping "light screening" may not require this.

I wouldn't mind showing the provider my ID and student ID to prove I'm not LE, but I haven't warmed up to the idea of a verification service. I also don't have any references obviously.

Thanks a lot!

RB

is to contact her.  There is no hard-and-fast definition.  Not sure why you don't want to use a verification service.  The big ones are very secure.  When you have no references it's tough without using a service.  The alternative is a girl who doesn't really verify you, which is dangerous for you, too.  You understand she needs to know you're not LE.  You need to know she's not, too.

join a screening service like preferred411.  there based in Canada.

you have references or have had experiences with other girls you can tell her about. In a couple of cases, I've offered a "light screening" girl a reference, but she either waived or wasn't able to reach her and booked me anyway. Although I'm not sure what "light" would mean for a total newbie, I would expect it to be comparably "paperless".

It's also possible that some escorts may promise light screening to make normal screening sound less intimidating, while non-screeners may promise it to cut down on nuisance callers.

If you can find a well-reviewed provider who doesn't ask for references, that can be a good way to get started. That was the case with the first few girls I saw, although the reason I chose them was their pics and reviews, not their screening policies. They were safe and discreet. Before long, I had a list of references to offer those who asked, and I was verified to join datecheck and p411 without providing too much personal information.

Im going to be a newbie in the US in a couple of weeks and i've already learnt just from being on this site how important screening is for both the ladies and the gents. I wont be seeing anybody who isn't verified or hasn't seen any other providers previously to myself as I want to be as safe as possible but I do see this posing some problems on my part as Little me has no reviews in the US so people may be wary of me.... but I think you should take the advice of the gents on here, especially the ones who have written a few reviews.... and join a verification site. They wouldn't have thousands of members on them who keep renewing their memberships if they weren't safe. I think it's far better to give your details to a secure verification site than to take chances. Have a fantastic time when you do finally take the plunge and see the gorgeous lady that you've picked

Casey xx

....some girls will accept "online" verification of employment/student status.

For example, she may ask if you can send her an email from your university email address.  Or she may ask if there's an online "phonebook" or directory in which she can pull up your name.

Every person in this hobby had a first time where we didn't have references to give.  There are alternatives, but each provider sets her own comfort level and her own requirements.  Get in touch with her, and ask what she requires for a newbie.  If it's information you're comfortable giving, go ahead.  If not, you'll need to move on.