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Do you usally let the provider do all the leading or do you do it?
PowersD 2124 reads
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Is it awkward if you are a passive guy and you let the provider do all the leading? Because I don't get sex that often I usually don't know which position to ask for or isn't as aggressive.

Unless there was something in one of her reviews that I wanted to experience, I usually let the lady take the lead.  I will move in the direction she leads me.

I usually let the provider lead considering my anxiety is "cranked" into overdrive.  Like keystone stated, if there is something particular I want to try, I will mention it to her, but it must sound like a bunch of jibberish because her response is usually 'What was that sweetie?"

Hi guys, I'm new to this forum, great job and sound like a nice bunch of guys.  My 2 cents is I'm a well...dominate leader.  I break the ice with telling them that I like to pose them and I like to take charge.  I say this is my place but it is your gig..so if or when you don't like something just say so.  It's always been cool.  I have them change into something that I bought for them or what they brought at my request.  I lead, I dictate, I command, I summon,  I just always thought that that is how it goes.  didn't seem to matter to any of them.  $1000 p/h or $200 p/h.  I'm considerate and respectful but I like what I like and noone had a problem.  Check out my reviews and please tell me if I'm unusual,,,,if my reviews ever get posted..been 4 days now...thanks guys.

shudaknownbetter1062 reads

Usually, we start with mutual kissing.  The clothes come off, we get to the bed.  I usually just ask them to lie with me, we kiss a little bit...  she takes the lead into a bj.  I take the lead back to taste her breasts...  back & forth we go.  
If I didn't direct, I'm sure she would keep things moving...  
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By and large no one leads my sessions...it's primal instinct, just let it flow.  For instance, I love DATY, but I've had sessions where I didn't do it at all because it just never happened.  So the natural (organic?) progression is more important to me than even my favorite activity.

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