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left 'holding my bag'
thenglshteacher 3142 reads
posted
1 / 7

I recently met w/ a provider, and it was about a month after the first time w/ her.  the first time was fantastic, and so I was happy to see her again. everything was going well, until she informed me that 'the rules had changed'!? I was, naturally, greatly disappointed, but I tried to be understanding. she insisted that I remain 'wrapped' for everything, and didn't even allow for a facial (don't women usually pay for that anyway?).  in any case, the worst of it was that I had contracted for an hour and a half, and, after the hour, she informed me that she was leaving, and that 'no' she wouldn't 'finish the job'.  this wasn't a multiple 'pop' thing, this was the original. I was shocked that she wouldn't even allow for five minutes, but I guess she has her 'boundaries' (much like a psychiatrist).  
in-spite of her unethical behavior of leaving me to satisfy my own rod, I kept the terms of our aggreement in full.  was I too decent to have done so? what expectations should I make clear before a session? what terms should I set? thanks.

shudaknownbetter 2156 reads
posted
2 / 7

Well, you were warned that "the rules had changed"...  and certainly for the worse.  If you had agreed on 1 1/2 hour & she left early than she broke the agreement (scamming you out of the difference).
I've been left hanging...  and I just scratch them off my list.  My Favs do what ever it takes to finish what we start (at least the first cup, after that it up to you to be able to finish).

Really if a lady says she's leaving, there's not much you can do.  Write a review so others will know be aware.
skb

xc222ea 47 Reviews 1652 reads
posted
3 / 7

That's a pretty bad story.

There is one thing – in my admittedly limited experience, most providers are not into facials. Coming in their mouths, yes in some cases, even coming and swallowing. But I don't know many who like facials. (Actually just last week I accidentally hit one in the eye – totally stopped the action while we did necessary triage.) Did this provider like something that wild one time and a month later wouldn't let you come? That's pretty inconsistent. Or did she not like it the first time?

A few other questions – had you showered before the session? Do you like it kind of rough? Was your breath clean and sweet? Sound like she decided at some point she wasn't into it. Is it something you might have done?

If the answer to all the above questions is no, she behaved in an unprofessional manner and you should let people know with a review.

keystonekid 114 Reviews 1166 reads
posted
4 / 7

Assuming you brought your "A" game, meaning good hygiene, manners, etc., the lady violated your "agreement for a session".  

Yes, you can write a review to let the rest of us know about her poor service.  Also, post on your regional board to alert other guys.

HaleyOrlando See my TER Reviews 1374 reads
posted
5 / 7

doesn't post send a problem report on her profile and be sure that cum in the mouth isn't checked and BJ is covered...

Many gentlemen look to the profile for these facts and if she has changed her offering it does need to be changed.

Write your review as well and mention her change of services on second date and shorting you time.

Did she mention the changed rules once you arrived, once you were into the session or when it was time to do oral

Either way you have every right to be upset

Kisses Haley

LadyJayLa See my TER Reviews 1289 reads
posted
6 / 7

I'm a MSOG type of woman, and i won't let my "date" leave without being satisfied and finished, unless it runs extreamly extreamly overtime. The time you booked should have been honored by the provider and there is NO excuse why this couldn't be done. "boundries"??? her boundries were booked for 90mins but she left after 60 your saying correct? It sounds to me like she didn't keep HER end of the bargin did she, but you were kind enough to keep yours..Totally not fair unless there's something your not telling us here, and what i suggest for you is to put that in a review. If there is something she disagrees with in it, i'm sure she'll speak up about it! It's funny how some are looking to run off and some providers like myself are enjoying the session so much we always run over the time frame..
I'm sorry this happened to you.
Jay

thenglshteacher 1094 reads
posted
7 / 7

i thought i had contracted for 90, she thought i had contracted for 60; simple mis-understanding--she wasn't being dishonest--our time before had been 90, and i thought she knew...
in any case, i was perfectly fresh.  i am mindful to be; i don't at all enjoy being offended, and i make an effort not to be (i had just taken a shower, etc... w/ a decent cologne).  

that her 'rules of conversation' had changed was upsetting, but it was because she had just attended 'how to be safe while . . .'.  i think she ought to have made this clear before, non? in any case, she could have spared me, but she chose not to--and that, in my book, is pretty unacceptable.  i wasn't at all abusive (although i made a bad joke about 'psychiatry', which i don't think she appreciated!?).  the fact that i paid her in full despite my 'condition' i think was rather decent, but that's the way i Am.  i really don't think most guys would have done the same, or been so good natured about it.  (much of why i am even meeting w/ lady consultants is because i have been the perennial 'nice guy'). perhaps if i acted (and smelled?) like a French man, things would go better for me?? sans doute!

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