Hi all,

Being a newbie and all, I'd like any suggestions anyone can grant.  I'm interested in a certain well-reviewed provider.  I don't know any of the reviewers personally (cause I'm new), so I'm wondering if there are LE signs that I should be wary of when meeting her.

If she is truely a "well-review provider" then there is pretty much no chance she is LE simply because many people reviewing a person who is LE does not happen.

If you are talking about yourself and easing her mind about you not being LE, then if you are new, you need to validate your identity using whatever method she wishes.  The best solution is to be up-front about it with her and say you are a newbie, and what method would she like to use to verify you are who you say you are.

that's why i think TER is such a useful resource center.  There are people reviewing numerous providers, and you can basically trust the reviews.  I am a newbie as well, and find the reviews extremely helpful.

Count the number of reviewers of her, if the number is five or more then she is likely legitimate.  You can follow up by checking each reviwer's reviews of OTHER providers, most people who post reviews on a provider probaly would have done some on other providers.  Check out the number of reviews that some of the other reviwers have done.  Generally, if the composite number of reviews that you end up using this method are high then the provider you are interested in is about 100% legit.

My two cents ...

If you are afraid of her being LE, then remember the only thing you can't do is: negotiate an exchange for sex. In my experience, there's simply no reason to discuss this transaction. You should already know the price for the visit beforehand - so unless you are asking for an itemized menu, this conversation doesn't have to occur. Remember, this is not iron clad insurance, but the law states that offering something in exchange for sex is illegal.

Second, if you want to make sure she knows you are not LE, you just have to do things that LE would never do. For instance, the quicker you get your pants off and start wanking (or whatever), the less likely you're going top be seen as LE. Just think of little things to say that would embarrass LE in front of his eavesdropping accomplishes. E.g. You are so hot, just looking at you get me hard, I'm going to have to unzip to make more room in here. (LE would never say those kind of things - what would a jury think???) But talking about how horney you are is not a crime.

I usually start by handing over the donation - without a word being said. You can be sure that a cop is trying to get phrases like "how much for this?" and "what will you give me for this $$$?"

If you uncomfortable with some of the previous suggestions, here's something very simple that you can do: simply engage in small talk - the weather, sports, her directions, etc., all the while undressing and getting more intimate. The audio will simply not match the activity and you'll see she'll be very comfortable that you're not trying to get her to say anything specific.