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Looking at BP this afternoon was a new ad... with a gorgeous girl.. about 25..
I called the phone & she answered, 2nd ring.. .. She said she would see me this afternoon.. I put her off.. and scheduled something for tommorow morning..
I looked through ER.. nothing on the name or the phone.. but she was giving me the standard.. "money for time only".. and said I will need my ID so she can be sure I am not law enforcement. I asked her where her incall was.. what town.. she asked me where would be conveneiant and said she would call me tommorow morning to let me know where she was.. but she will be in a town not so far away..  
I'm a bit nervous with no reviews.,..and I can tell that she has been through this before.. I asked her if the pictures on BP were real and she said yes and recent..

Thiugfht? Ideas?

That will tell you if they're fake.  If they are, don't book.  How much is she?  Why not go with someone that has reviews here?  You have only one review here so you may be new.  If that's the case, you're looking for trouble and may just find it.

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As hell, are influenced by a pic , no reviews , and most likely won't enjoy yourself . (Just being honest ) so why bother ? Your reciting her ad basically and asking if she's real , it really makes no sense . I wouldn't do it .  

Posted By: josulli
Looking at BP this afternoon was a new ad... with a gorgeous girl.. about 25..  
 I called the phone & she answered, 2nd ring.. .. She said she would see me this afternoon.. I put her off.. and scheduled something for tommorow morning..  
 I looked through ER.. nothing on the name or the phone.. but she was giving me the standard.. "money for time only".. and said I will need my ID so she can be sure I am not law enforcement. I asked her where her incall was.. what town.. she asked me where would be conveneiant and said she would call me tommorow morning to let me know where she was.. but she will be in a town not so far away..  
 I'm a bit nervous with no reviews.,..and I can tell that she has been through this before.. I asked her if the pictures on BP were real and she said yes and recent..  
   
 Thiugfht? Ideas?

Due to the following:
1) Backpage
2) No screening (ID is not enough)
3) Too good to be true
4) No reviews
Unless you want to be arrested,robbed or murdered.. I would not take a chance...Stick to well reviewed providers, no need to be be risking your life to find those "hidden gems".

Stick to well reviewed providers until you have some experience under your belt.  Doesn't matter what she tells you, it's what is verifiable.  

Swim

Nothing good comes from that site  I can't say all but most ads are not the girls B&S or are a service that are about to send a girl to up sell the s*** out of you now I am not saying that you won't  get lucky and find a real girl on there that's just starting out or just doesn't know about better and safer sites such as this one ;) but I am saying that your chances are very slim on bp what I would suggest is Eros guide or my city vibe you will have allot better luck on those site and when ever contacting a provider please never ever say any thing lewed just ask for what there rate is and request them to come over please use your best judgment because the last thing any real provider wants is for you to get in trouble or ripped off because you will loose interest in the hobby and that affects the providers that are really about doing good business and leaving a hobbiests happy for return business    Hope this helps helps  also look into getting p411 and date check  that will help you allot as well  
Xoxo

THanks.. I have gone to Eros Guide.. and called some of the providers there... no callback & of course I don't say anything lewd or specific, just that I would like toget in touch to see if we could set up a time on an incall basis, .. and never a return call or text..

One day I called 8 different providers from Eros, and not one call back.. so I go to BP and get a response.. so what is the picture I am getting.  

I have been with two providers (both well reviwed) from BP... One very nice, the other also nice, but living and in call situation kind of sketchy..I reviwed both.. one review was rejected, the other accepted..

Thanks for the input... YOu are supporting my concerns...Good toknow.. andwe all have to start somewhere..

OK so how come it's so tough to get a call back from a lot ofthe providers.. Because of that you go where you can to get a response..  I follow the rules as outlined in their info (no blocked calls, no texts, etc..)

only see well-reviewed providers (at least 6-8 reviews from established reviewers). Don't care where you shop but if you don't have VIP to read the reviews, you are rolling the dice.

BTW, how can an ID prove you are not LE? LE have DL's too.

I used to wonder the same thing but then someone posted on TER (I forget which Board: General, NY or Boston, I guess) that in some states LE get issued DLs that indicate their LE status.  It probably makes it easier to get out of a speeding ticket or other violation as an LE brother.  I don't know which states or which jurisdictions but that partially explains some of the DL-not-LE proof.  

Also, if the DL presented is from out of state (a tourist, a traveler, MAYBE LE), then they likely have no jurisdiction in the current situation and were probably NOT sent on an undercover assignment to another state at the taxpayer's expense.  They've got too much to worry about in their own state!  If it does appear to be an out of state LE DL, I'm guessing the guy is there for fun, NOT for trouble

A few mixed reviews does not mean well reviewed ... one of them has 3 names and no website listed at all  

Lol LE have ID too lmao ... I can't believe a provider considers that screening ... Sad but funny

...the one review is a lady in Boston. You mention that she drove a long way so maybe that's the answer to my question. I'm wondering if you are looking for providers on the TER regional ad board for your area. Chances are good you would get a response from them. Make your first contact by e-mail. You could also communicate with them through the PM system here. Either pay for VIP or look at your review that was rejected to see what the reason is. Fix it, Resubmit it, and once it's approved and posted you will have VIP and can use the PM system & take advantage of all TER  has to offer. (You get 30 days of VIP after two reviews are approved and posted. Then 15 days for each review after that.)

Posted By: xyz23
...the one review is a lady in Boston. You mention that she drove a long way so maybe that's the answer to my question. I'm wondering if you are looking for providers on the TER regional ad board for your area. Chances are good you would get a response from them. Make your first contact by e-mail. You could also communicate with them through the PM system here. Either pay for VIP or look at your review that was rejected to see what the reason is. Fix it, Resubmit it, and once it's approved and posted you will have VIP and can use the PM system & take advantage of all TER  has to offer. (You get 30 days of VIP after two reviews are approved and posted. Then 15 days for each review after that.)
Actually I am.. I was traveling im Western Mass & a providoer from Springfield responded to my inquiry.. I am home now in the boston area and am contacting  via phone with a VM.. I think I will start using email.. but some ads say no text or email.. so who knows..

the gals who use phone as first contact, work on a faster cycle than I can manage with my distance.  
I much prefer email as first contact as we can communicate at our leisure.  Your subject line should be something like "Like to meet you soon."  Gals don't like time wasters but need enough time to screen you.  I'd say 2-4 days is typical for me.

I was nervous about meeting her, but had agreed that she would call me at 8:00 AM to let me know where her incall was.. She never called.. so at 8:15 I went to my office and found another provider who has been very well reviewed and had a wonderful time..

...or did you manage to get today's session submitted, approved, and posted in less than 8 hours. I have had a review post that quickly but it's unusual.

Posted By: xyz23
...or did you manage to get today's session submitted, approved, and posted in less than 8 hours. I have had a review post that quickly but it's unusual.
I re-submitted one.. I did a review of todays session.. that is still pending approval.. Actually I did two reviews .. one on the providor that stood me up (not much to say) and one on the provider that I saw today..

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