Hi.  I'm new to "the hobby" so don't have any references.  Providers that I contact all want references.  So I'm in a Catch-22:  I can't get references without seeing a provider, and I can't see a provider without references.  How can I start?  Thanks!

one will be more popular than the others.

tell you where to go.  DateCheck, Preferred41, and RoomService2000 are the main verification sites.  RS2K is most popular in the midwest.  Gina, at p411 will work with you to get you verified.

Of course you will need to provide screening information. I think P411, Date Check and RS2K are great ways to start accumulating your oks from ladies. As mentioned on the thread above, Gina from P411 is great and will explain you and walk you through the process smoothly..
Good luck!