and that is breath odor.

Be sure to do an excellent job in the oral hygiene department, and knock off garlic for at least several days prior to an appointment.

Believe me, it makes a big difference.

I realize your question is about WHY some providers don't kiss, but it sounds as though you're seeing a lot of girls who don't and trying to kiss them anyway. Not the best way to gain rapport, and your "Oh brother" comment indicates an imprudent disdain.

Are you aware that you can easily find out whether kissing is on a provider's menu by checking her reviews and profile? With a little homework there's no reason the head turnaway should be "the usual thing" for you anymore.

Kissing

Agree with all - could definitely be Hygiene so make sure to freshen up before kissing (and avoid the garlic and onions) or could just be provider preference. Not much to do with "prostituting" ourselves all the way - I wouldn't think as once you are in this hobby you can't just get part the way in the water and kissing is the determining factor. Some providers just don't care to provide that service. It might be something they reserve for the personal life only. Who knows.  They either do or don't Just check the reviews and websites so you know what you are in for.

Good luck, stay safe and have fun!

Summer

If you read the reviews you will know which ones do and which ones don't.  If she does not offer DFK, I will not see her.  And if her reviews say she does offer it, and I get there and she doesn't do it. it will definitely be reflected in the review.

I really only have two deal-breakers, DFK and BBBJ.  If they aren't on the menu, I move on.

Swim

For some women sensual kissing is a lot more personnel than even Sex and is reserved for someone they have special feelings for. So some providers kiss, but are not really giving 100% to you as that is for the SO. Then others will just kiss with total abandon, either way you can usually tell by reading the reviews.