Can you kiss a gfe/pse provider alot? Like tounging, on her lips, neck, etc. and love on her instead of just doing the act? Or does alot of kissing make it too personal?

Some gals don't mind it if you shower them in cum and put any part of your body into any part of their body as long as it is not your tongue in their mouth.

That's just the way it is.

Other gals will suck your tonsils out.

I like the latter but know plenty of the former too.

By the way, I've converted some of the former to the latter by being very careful about oral hygiene, especially just before the date.

There is a line of premium mouthwash and toothpaste called Therabreath out there (Try drug stores.) and I found it made a difference.

Check her profile for "kiss" under "services offered". If it says "Yes - With Tongue", you have your answer. Read some of her reviews to make sure that all the reviewers mention it.

I'd have to agree with mrfisher here.  I love to kiss, and passionately so.  However, it turns my stomach to kiss a man who tastes like stale cigarettes, coffee or whatever he consumed 2 hours prior.  Your chances are greater if your mouth (and all other parts) are exceedingly fresh =)

Ditto to what Vivienne said.  Also, if you stick your whole tongue in my mouth within thirty seconds of meeting me, that's a bit of a turn off.  Start with a little tongue and you'll get further.

However, as Vivienne and MrFisher stated, if your breath is foul, expect that ymmv even if all her reviews state that she offers kissing.

I'd be careful about trying to "convert" a provider...some women will not take kindly to any suggestion that their boundaries are fluid. You could find yourself on a few different blacklists and have your session cut short if you're seen as being too pushy. While I myself have very few limits (i.e. no greek, women, hardsports or animals) if a client keeps asking for something I won't do or keeps asking "Can't you just try it?" it really creeps me out...especially since my limits are posted on my website and quite a few of my ads. I check phone numbers against a few different blacklists and have seen gentlemen blacklisted for "Forced DFK". When that comes up, it makes me wonder whether the gentleman in question simply meant well but didn't do his homework before choosing a provider, didn't brush his teeth that day, or finds overstepping boundaries a turn-on.

I understand the oral hygene issue, what I do not understand is the ladies who bbj up to and including cim or nqns do not kiss at all for any one. (hygene has nothing to do with it) Just makes no sense to one confused "john".

but since when has sex or romance made any sense?

We just have to accept that some gals are never going to cede that part of themeselves to us and be glad we can have access to the other 95% of them.

Pay attention to the line in the Lynyrd Synyrd song, Gimme Three Steps:

"Wait a minute mister, I didn't even kiss her...."

So, screwing like sex crazed monkeys is no biggie, but kissing, well.....

Listen and see:

(Click link.)

Kissing to me is amazing...with people who can kiss, otherwise it's revolting. If I am with someone who cannot kiss, then I make every attempt to avoid doing it. Sorry but there is only so ,much I can
block out" in order to do my job. And ditto to please don't shove your whole tongue in my mouth at leave it there...that is beyond disgusting...that and filling my mouth with your saliva.

A good kisser is worth their weight in gold.

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