I am a newbie and had a question about kissing. I find it better when with someone that likes kissing. Is it unusual to find providers that kiss? My first did not say anything until she showed up, it made it more difficult to connect with her.

You need to read the juicy details of a provider's reviews in order to find out.

Most reviews don't say one way or the other about kissing

Most do, but it's under the GC details section of the review. Also, look at her profile under the "services offered "section. It will tell you whether she kisses or not and, if so whether she kisses with tongue or not. Sometimes the information is outdated or incorrect, but looking at her most recent reviews should tell you what you need to know.

If you have VIP and can read the "Juicy Details" part of the review, most will reference LFK and DFK.  If it is not mentioned, then it is probably not allowed.  A lot depends on the type of ladies you are trying to see.  While not true in all cases, many ladies who offer shorter visits (less than an hour) are more about volume than the experience.  They just want you to get off, and assume that is what you want also. Look for ladies who advertise GFE type services, and longer visits.  The reviews should back up what she advertises.

The info you seek about kissing is in the providers profile and usually is written about by the guy in the juicy details of the review. You can't see that without the VIP membership.

my first provider years ago did not kiss..said it was "too intimate"..i learned my lesson well..no DFK..no appointment..

pm the reviewers and ask them yourself to see how much of a fit she is for you.

That would be really bizarre with no kissing... like really weird.  

Get VIP and read reviews...nothing else you can do. Just asking the chosen provider if she kisses won't guarantee she is going to kiss YOU, though. As with anything in the hobby, YMMV. Providers LIE to get you in the door many times, so just her saying she will do x, y, and z, does not mean she will. She may take your money and refuse certain things or try to upsell for them.  

You will vastly improve the likelihood that a provider will kiss you if you don't eat any smelly foods for three or four hours before you see her. Also, you should brush and floss several hours before you see her, then not consume any food or drink other than water during the period before you see her, and use some mouthwash immediately before seeing her. The more minty fresh your mouth is, the better off you are. Also, if you smoke, don't smoke for as long as possible before seeing her.

It had nothing to do with my breath as I had brushed teeth and used scope. She said after the fack that it was too personal, which is fine if you know about it before hand. Every person has to feel compfortable I understand that, it is just a personal preference.

I am talking about improving your chances of being able to kiss a provider that will allow it. Providers who kiss will not necessarily kiss guys who have bad breath or cigarette breath. Eliminating those smells from your breath, generally speaking, improve your chances of being able to kiss a provider.

I love to kiss, but I refuse to kiss a guy who is horrible!!!!!  

As a provider, I love to kiss.  I feel it helps with the connection as well.  Although sometimes, some people are horrible kissers, in which case I just avoid it.  But nice soft kisses, or light FK are something I love to do.  You just have to ask first cuz some do and some dont.  And if it is that important to you, then it should be important to your provider as well.