The guys mostly hit it on the head, except for, if you show up... even once you're naked, & start asking if I'll do xyz.. some ladies WILL end the appointment right then and there. I NEVER discuss services at any point in time... what a lady does & doesn't provide will be in her reviews. Most people just arrive for the appointment & go with the flow... you can direct her physically in what you'd like, but actually speaking it, might shy some ladies away.
So when should I tell her what I would like our time together to include? As soon as I walk in the door? Will she ask what I want her to do or do I just say I want you to do this and do this and this all the while we are already engaging in the act?
First of all, if you have VIP you should have read her reviews before booking. This will tell you virtually everything you need to know about what she does and does not do. Second, go to her web site if she has one. A few of them give her menu, though most don't. Third, once the date is set you can ask if she's comfortable taking a clothing request. Almost all say "yes." But do not ever ask a provider before an actual date what acts she will perform. That is a big LE risk for her and she will cancel. Last, once you arrive don't be shy about telling her what you'd like her to do. She wants to please you in order to get repeat business or a good review. You should already know what she does from step one so there's no need to be embarassed.
inicky pretty much laid it out for you. I'll usually drop the envelop off on a table top and tell the lady that's for her. Then soemtimes I'll have a break the ice conversation first for a few minutes, usually as we're sitting next to each other on the bed or sofa. Then I'll sometimes say "do you have any rules I need to know" This question will hopefully clear up any YMMV situations like Greek or CIM. You'll find that profiles are outdated and wrong and beleive it or not reviewers every once in awhile embelish just a little. You should be able to figure it all out once you've seen a few ladies. Just remember stick with well reviewed escorts. They're professionals and will take the lead if need be.
If it is your first time with her, you should probably wait until you are naked in bed with her. Any time prior to that, she is still nervous that you might be LE. If you want something that takes time for her to prepare (you want to be restrained, and she did not bring restraints), you might not be able to get it until the next date.
Once you have met her, you can discuss things on the phone, but never by e-mail or text (don't want to leave a trail). It is still better to discuss in person at the end of the date and mention what you would like on the next date.
The guys mostly hit it on the head, except for, if you show up... even once you're naked, & start asking if I'll do xyz.. some ladies WILL end the appointment right then and there. I NEVER discuss services at any point in time... what a lady does & doesn't provide will be in her reviews. Most people just arrive for the appointment & go with the flow... you can direct her physically in what you'd like, but actually speaking it, might shy some ladies away.
at the start of the session, after breaking the ice, draw her in close in a standing embrace and ask her if there are any rules she has for you. This puts her at ease, allows her to let you know what she likes/dislikes and 999 times out of a 1000 she'll then ask you the same. This is your invite to then lay out your desires. I will freely admit that most every bad session I've ever had was because I expected her to read my mind. They list all sorts of services on their sites, but I've yet to find clairvoyance listed as one of them
Most will say "Everything" which is no help. Sometimes I like to just let things evolve. Sometimes I will whisper in her ear... Don't run a list! Just ask for what you want next, if it doesn't seem to be happening. skb
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