Hello everyone, I am a newbie and have a question perhaps someone could help with.  Adultfriendfinder seems to have alot more women who appear to be providers listed in my area than reviews posted here would lead me to believe exist.  Any info on that site?  There are pics of lots of really attractive women to choose from, but no reviews.  Is it cool to contact these women or are they some kind of bait and switch?  Any help would be greatly appreciated.

I was on there for a few weeks.  The one woman I corresponded with was a school teacher that wanted intimacy.  Unfortunately, she decided she couldn't go through with her decision.  So, I got nothing.

i signed up for that once, just used the free option. never got an answer from any e-mail i sent to a lady. also i once got an e-mail from a lady but was unable to reply. i dont know if it gets better if you pay for membership but i doubt it.

I pretty much agree with you.  B/c I changed my email, I was able to do the 3-day free option twice.  On the last day, I finally got an email from a local chick.  We were able to get each other's real email addresses, so I could write her after my membership expired.  Being married and with kids, I had very limited opportunities to see her and had to tread real carefully with this one.  At that same time, I discovered my ATF provider.  My stress level was a LOT better seing the provider.  It's true, you're paying for a "no strings" experience with a pro.  Not knowing what I could've gotten myself into with the other gal was not worth the risk, however I'm sure I would've tried had I not discovered my ATF.  I think I still have the woman's email, but I can't imagine using it.  She kept telling me that she was "not shy" and "really needed sex", so it was hard for the little head to let her go.  If I weren't married, I'd consider them.  Of course, I was besieged by a lot of messages that I couldn't retrieve once my membership expired, so that has me thinking that the service is pretty much a ripoff.  But who knows....?

in my pre escorting days.  For me it was a great place to meet single, good looking men who wanted casual relationships.  The ratio is not in your favor there because there are so many more men than women on that site. Which worked well for me and I could pick and choose.  Kind of like reverse TER and I didn't even have to pay. Ha Ha

In anycase when I figured out Megatha could go on dates AND get paid I dropped my AdultFriendFinder membership.

I'm a provider and I think it's both. When I look at that site I recognize some of the women as known providers in some areas.

I have been a GOLD member twice, a few years ago when I separated and now.

I think it all depends on you. If you are good looking, fit and work the law of averages, then it might be worth it.

Travelling all over country helps. I have had more sex with separated wives, married ladies and single ladies than I really needed. The big problem is "The connection". They want a relationship that goes with it. You can't blame them, it's an alternative to the DULL sites, though I stumbled on a few "sizzlers" there too.

Most of my encounters were based on much email and talking on phone. Only a couple were blind meetings.

Having worked the "law of averages" I say 50% are fakes.. with many men acting as women, 15% escorts looking to cash in, 25% that are really interested in relationships and 10% that are into RAW SEX.

I did the couples thing too. But there are a few that want a man to join them. One thing with them, it is a lifestyle and not a guy coming to screw his wife. Big Difference.

Oh the law of averages..  A couple weeks prior to visiting a city, I would send close to 100 emails with pic to those active 2 weeks or less, introduce myself and tell them what I was looking for.. (dinner date, movies.. some entertainment and intimancy.)

On an average 15 would write back, 5 would continue conversation, 2-3 would meet. Usually the ones that meet are "Primed" for fun.

I did find many use old pics or pics not of them.. Just imagine that meeting in a restuarant.. UGGG!

Oh when you do hit one, LOOK OUT!

I'm still a member and have 2 ladies that I see in the town I frequent.

Why am I here? Simple "No Strings Attached."

Megatha, a web site would be a nice form of advertisment.

No ads.  I'm too shy! lol

Megatha

Then how do I know if I'm atracted to you?  You have a great personality but I like to see who I'm wanting to spend time with.

They are almost certainly bait and switch. Do not see anyone unless they are reviewed !!! This is especially true in Southern CA where they are all crooks. Trust me.

Sign up for free.  Then go to their magazine and read all about all of the bugs that site has.  Stuff NEVER works!  I have met a few women there, but most are fakes or providers.  Lots of gay and bi guys too.

kc

I was with them for 6 months
got a few responses. Nothing in the end came of it and I dropped my membership, happily