So I just upgraded to VIP, and I started reading reviews for girls in the NYC area. I'm definitely interested in their services, but what comes next? Some of the reviews have the girls' phone numbers. Can I call and set up an appointment or do I still have to do the whole "Verification" thing I've heard about?

I've heard you usually have to be called at your office, but at my job, my office can't really be called directly from the outside; you have to go through this maze of extension numbers. Also, security monitors phone calls so I'm really hesitant about giving my work number + extension numbers.

Can I be verified with, maybe, a scan of my ID and some consecutive paychecks? Or can I skip all that and call some of the providers right away with their numbers listed on this site?

She will tell you there how she wants to be contacted first. If you can't find any preferred first contact from her, then it is fine to use whatever method is available.

...guys who call and want to "get to it right away."  They prefer to screen you thoroughly so your best bet is to contact them first by email.

You may not like to pussyfoot, but sometimes you have to if you want to get the pussy.

example, "This is Dr. Smith's Office, can I speak to Mr. John to remind him about his doctors appointment on Wednesday?"  click (caller hangs up when the call is transfered).

Go to her site and see she prefers to be contacted.

Contact them, and they will usually tell you what to do next.

As far as giving out your personal information...that's all up to you.  Every provider is different as to her screening procedures.

I'm in NYC.  Tell me what you are looking for, and I can point you in the right direction.

...Anyone with $30. can join TER.  You join TER to assist you in picking the right provider for you. TER may help if you participate in the discussion boards such as the General Discussion board as well as your local regional board.  Providers will see you have a history of posting and get a feel for who you are.

Depending on what city you live in, you may also want to join DateCheck or Preferred411, services that prescreen you.



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And you shouldn't expect 90 minutes for that rate--60 minutes if you're lucky.

And most girls who are high-quality want to do screening.  Are you okay with being screened?  That process can take up to 24 hours, so if you want to do this on the fly, good luck.

Such as your real name, your work information, etc.