I got the message about not talking about sex and money with providers.  If you're a new hobbiest and never met a provider before; well reviewed or not, how do you get to the point from her checking ID and conversation to the real reason I'm there in the first place?  Is there something I can tell or ask her; or is there something she can tell or ask me that would speed up the ackwardness for either of us suspecting the other is LE?  Is it bad mannors to make obvious physical advaces to the provider (after conversation) to let her know you're willing to take a Leap of Faith for "full service" at the $$$ pre-arranged for her company, plus tip if expected?  What if the provider blindsides you with a tip amount higher than what is implied in her reviews and the Leap of Faith leaves you wondering why you didn't just ask her, "How Much?" in the first place?  How do I arrange where I just put the money on the table, get to know her and go for it, and know that I'm not breaking the law or moving to fast for the average providers comfort level expectations.