Leave her some autographed memorabilia, tickets to tonight's game, and a cab ride home. It worked for him until he repeated with a girl one day, but forgot he had even seen her the first time...lol
Seriously though...fruit?
Hey, I have a question for both Providers and VIPs:
If you wanted to give a small gift -- I'm thinking chocolates, candy, gift cards, flowers -- to a provider in these 2 scenarios:
1) First-time visit
2) subsequent visit -- once you know better the girl --
What are the etiquette rules?
Visit. If it goes beyond that and you enjoy her, then step up and show her how much you appreciate her ! Of course all is up to you and all the legit ladies dont expect anything extra. They all enjoy a little unexpected surprise as much as you would. It doesn't always have to be much, it's just the thought, after all we are all human .
I don't need flowers from clients and they die in a week, so think about things providers could use...candles, scented lotions, massage oils, or gift cards. Most guys bring gifts on the first meeting to make an impression for some reason, but are never expected. My last gift was a very nice VS robe with the hood, and I know those things are over 100 bucks, so it was certainly a nice gesture. I spent an extra hour with that client too lol.
Leave her some autographed memorabilia, tickets to tonight's game, and a cab ride home. It worked for him until he repeated with a girl one day, but forgot he had even seen her the first time...lol
Seriously though...fruit?
That is what gift giving should be about.
If you are happy, she'll most likely be happy, and if she isn't, then she probably isn't the gal for you anyways.
Thanks for the feedback.
London made me to rethink about flowers. maybe only for escorts you already know and that you know it wont affect them -- in case they have a SO -- However, I think it's hard to gift perfumes/lotions/clothing when you don't know the escort enough.
What about a Victoria Secret outfits? Although it is also a self-gift, right?
If they don't have any suggestions there, do what I do: Give jewelery.
It's mostly one size fits all, it's light and easy to hide on you so you aren't obvious when heading to their room. It's also easy to hide from the wife.
I buy from stores that feature nice hand made things or I go to craft fairs. Antique malls also have some good buys. Stick to sterling silver as it is not too expensive and is the least reactive in terms of metal allergies.
I can find lots of nice things that use semi-precious stones like amethyst, topaz, garnet, etc in the range of $100-200.
Gals seem to love it, and it will last life times.
That's a great advice Mr F. You'll be remembered everytime they wear it. I recall those De Beers ads.
Dude wtf? Are you serious dude? Hopefully this gets approved cause I'm gonna keep it real dawg.. She's not your girlfriend, an escort is a chick who has sex with multiple strangers for money...why are you bringing her flowers? Sorry but that is the silliest thing I ever heard. I have seen on some provider websites where they say they accept gifts, but they specifically say which gifts they accept (Gucci purses, Christian Loubitton (sp) heels, fendi, cars, Tiffany Jewelry etc etc). My in my opinion I would never buy those chicks any of that...all they get is their rate. I buy that stuff for loved ones. Trust me dude, escorts are about MONEY they dont want any stupid flower and chocolates, in her eyes you are just a trick, keep it 100% business bro. Imagine how silly you will look walking into a escorts hotel room with flowers. C'mon bro....
I was thinking on a single flower - discrete - and only for the one I think would
Appreciate it. Not everybody think of escorts as the flesh that surrounds a vagina, c'mon dude.
One of the first things you need to know is not everyone on here is the same. They are unique people and they are looking for different things.
Some, like JayDay, want to toss down the money, drop their pants, and walk out in 20 min without being able to identify her if he saw her on the street an hour later. There's nothing wrong with that for some guys, though personally I think they miss a lot of what makes this enjoyable.
However, given the question you asked in the OP, you seem to fall in a different category. Also nothing wrong with that. Actual friendly interactions are something many of us DO lok for, and a small gift goes a long way towards that. It is an ice breaker, because both parties are often a little nervous on a first meeting. It often brings a smile to the lady's face, and a smiling lady typically means a better date.
Mr Fischer is right about jewelry--especially if it's a little different piece it wil probably be appriciated. The nice side effect is whenever she wears it she will have a tendency to remember you. That certainly helps if you want to see her again later, but even if not it is a great memory jogger to get a reference later on.
If I get to know a lady a bit, then I try to tailor the gift to her. You can get a lot of clues just by listening to her, reading her web site (I'm not just talking about her "Gift" list), and LOOKING AT HER PHOTOS--the stuff in the picture besides her. Does she talk about her dogs? Is she surrounded by teddy bears? Do all her photos show long, silvery earrings? A little research and extra effort often pays rewards.
Now flowers or fruit? Probably not so much. But tasteful jewelry? What is wrong with that? And to say that a certain provider is incapable of liking a customer as a person (and appreciating a gift) is flat wrong. How would you know? Just because that's the way you categorize your "relationships" with providers doesn't mean others have to follow your blueprint.
And it doesn’t matter what type of gift a gentleman brings to the date, perhaps is the intention that matters, whether it’s a flower, a box of chocolates, a bowl of fruit, a bottle of an alcoholic beverage or a piece of jewelry. I find that as providers, we are attracted to the ability of men to brighten up a woman’s day with a small detail. Any kind of gift it’s just a way a man shows that he went beyond the envelope and actually appreciates the company of a woman, but once again, they are never expected.