Ok - so - a drop dead gorgeous and totally my type Provider posts on CityVibe. Love the look, but very little else is given other than contact info including email. So I reach out via email telling her how I love her look and would really enjoy meeting her. 

A couple hours later I call her number to follow up and she answers. I introduce myself and let her know I sent her a note earlier. She interrupts me "I don't accept notes, I only talk to people"

Ok - so I tell her how I dig her look and how I'd like to meet up. "when do you want to schedule an appointment" she asks. Well, how about how much?  "300". Ok - for what?  FS GFE?  "I don't discuss solicitation on the phone" she says. 

So - am I supposed to schedule an appointment with this young lady, not knowing anything about the services she offers, the rules she wants me to follow etc?  Hmmmm - yes you guessed it no reviews and no website but DAMN she was so my type. So I beg off saying I'm confirming my plans and I'll call her later in the week - NOT!

I am sure I violated a 1000 newbie rules about coming off like LE and asking questions I shouldn't have. But - she advertises an email address she apparently didn't read, won't reveal anything on the phone beyond an ever increasing beoch attitude. Other than "don't reach out to peeps not reviewed on TER or elsewhere" was there some other tack I should have followed?

What does TOFTT stand for?

so someone, male or female, posts a picture of anyone, that I think the picture is drop dead gorgeous on CityVibe. I can't find out anymore information but I call her anyway.

At least in your last paragraph you did the right thing. All the bait and switch, old photo and other bad things depend on your first statement and coming over with no information except a possibly true picture to get you there. Once there they can usually get some money out of you, at least most of the time or all these bad experiences would not continue. Yes once in a while you may hit on a gem but it is very risky without any other known information. You can check the photos are not stolen, you can search the phone number and check local boards but unfortunately you already know the best advice see reviewed providers until you get enough experience to take the risks.

If your gonna spend $300, she has to be reviewed and legit. From the story, she isn't professional. Why would a provider post their e-mail address and not be active with it--then she states, I don't check e-mail. Also, the "beoch attitude" is pronounce "Biootchh. Her attitude is a big indicator of the type of service she will deliver. She's not specific in her ad, no reviews, you had to ask, its her fault, not yours.

Fuck her, there are other girls in the sea. Save that $300 for a well reviewed provider. Don't take your chances if your gonna spend that amount of money. BTW, if she was cool with you over the phone, like asking questions but not direct, she would have made you feel comfortable and reassured you passively that she delivers. Just my 2 cents.

... the girl has no reviews?

She forced you to solicit by not posting what sex acts she does for money in her ad?

Are you guys retarded?

These are two separate issues 1) that she is unreviewed and someone has to TOFTT to find out if she is legit... and 2) asking for any sex act prior to meeting is solicitation which is always a bad idea.

I guess it will be better when the next girl is nice to you so you can see her and get arrested.

The girl was not LE, otherwise she would have been all over discussing what services you would get. On the other hand, since she did not hang up it seems very likely she is either pretty out there on the edge or just a rip off. Most reputable providers would have ended the call right there, for their own safety.

To repeat myself - there are ways to screen an unreviewed lady if you want to TOFTT, but if you are posting here you probably should not go there. And if you are asking a lady on the phone what is included for your $$$, you definitely are not ready to TOFTT. Geez.

zig

"take on for the team" I love urbandictionary.com

take one for the team means seeing a provider without reviews or history and taking a chance on whether she is a good provider that gives a good session or not. She could be worse by being a Bait & Switch, snatch & grab etc.