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JustGopherIt 2 Reviews 1609 reads
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Losing my hobby virginity tomorrow morning.  Starting off on training wheels (FBSM), but since I'm already getting a little nervous (and excited), that's probably a good thing.  Have xanax in hand....will travel.

I made the appointment last week.  Today I see she is advertising a special rate for today and tomorrow.  Do I get that rate or should I just pay her regular rate so as to not offend?  I can't remember if she had a special rate when I made the appointment.  

I know there was some discussion about this previously, but I did some searching and couldn't find the thread.  

dwarrw2213 316 reads
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Shoot her an email (or whatever is her preferred method of conact) and ask her. Never had any issue with a lady when inquiring about an ambiguity over her rates. Just be super polite when asking. Say something like, "Hello X, I was just wondering if the rate you have currently listed on your website would apply to our session tomorrow? Reason I ask is that I wasnt sure when I made the appt if the discounted rate was in effect at the time. Thank you so much for understanding as i didnt want there to be any micommunication about this. Whatever you decide is fine. I am really looking forward to meeting you tomorrow!"

swimtrekr 59 Reviews 221 reads
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The worst that can happen is that you get stuck with the rate that was what you booked her with with and then it's your call, as to whether or not you want to go thru with the date.   I'd want to know if I was gonna get the advertised special or not.  BTW, you should get that IMHO.

Swim

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JustGopherIt 2 Reviews 274 reads
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Was not nearly as nervous as I anticipated (gal was great which helped a lot....only needed 1/2 of a xanax....LOL).  Donation was a breeze.  Very good experience.  Definitely glad I went this route to begin with.    

I'm sure seeing a FS provider is a completely different experience, but looks a lot less intimidating now.  

Not trying to talk out of my vagina, but thanks to all who take the time to give advice to those who are just trying to figure things out.  I never would have actually gone through with it if I didn't have the knowledge that this board offers.  

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