Let's say that you booked for a hour...it goes by with the provider...you're having such a great time that now you want another hour right there and then/  Can this be done?  How do you do it?  Are there rules of engagement?

Just ask her if its possible to extend your time. if her schedule permits I'm sure she would be willing to.

It might be a good idea when booking her time that you let her know that you MAY be interested in extending. basically giving her a heads up.

hope this helps
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Jenny

If she is able to, she will, if not, she'll just let you know.  I've had providers decline but none who got upset or thought it was wrong of me to ask.  I've also had providers extend the time as well.

No biggie really.

My advice, first know how much cash you have on hand.  Then ask if it would be possible to extend.  Dependent upon her schedule, she may or may not be able to accomodate your request.  Even a low volume provider may have back-to-back appts with only an hour in between as the client, not the provider, dictates the schedule and there are times when two clients need specific times.  Or she may have a personal/family obligation after your appointment which also takes precedence.  What I do urge is not to get caught up in the heat of passion and find that you do not have enough for the additional time.

Most providers are happy to extend!

By that time you should both be very comfortable in each others company and able to discuss almost anything.  This shouldn't be any big deal.

When you get there be sure to ask her if she has available time. Don't ask if there's someone coming after you that would make any girl uncomfortable. I suggest just asking if she has any extra time available if you two hit it off and you want to stay longer. If she says yes then keep that at the forefront of your mind. I assume you've already laid the 1 hr donation aside for her but when the hour is up I would excuse myself and put the next hour donation in the bathroom or somewhere that she can see it. Let her know that you've " taken care of the extra time with a gift in the bathroom"

Most women have no problem extending dates unless they are agency girls. Agencies usually do not offer extra time but with independents you may have better luck.

Alyssa

I've found that if it's your first time with a particular provider she may be jsut as cautious about booking a multiple hour gig on the first time. Let's face it, if there's not a connection niether hobbyist nor provider want to spend the extra time together. It only makes sense. Ask when setting up the appt. if extending is an option. I find that providers appreciate the courtesy.

I like 2 hrs but was warned not to sched more than 1 on first in case the chemistry is off.  So I will sometimes ask for an option of 2 or ask part way in if they can go 2.  Few have turned it down but if they have a nother guy coming then you are SOL.

I don't think most mind - they usually like it I think.