I am relatively new and had the same difficulties as you finding that first provider. I found a well-reviewed veteran provider on TER and emailed her. We exchanged some emails, and i called her on her TER listed number. We talked on the phone and she took a chance on me. After i met her, she gave me a reference, I became Preferred411 and Date Check approved and now I am golden.
they will not & should not discuss the details on a public forum like this... invites LE & creaps to try to beat the system, to the ladies detriment. Some ladies have rigid policies while others are more flexible, offering alturnative screening for newbies, self-employed, retired... All you can do is tell her the truth, see if you can provide enough to make her comfortable seeing you. If not, no harm, no foul. Move on, maybe circle back later if you get referances. Sometimes a screening service is a help. Look through other posts for the names of reputable services. skb
There also are screening services that will pre-screen you and are then accepted as references by many ladies. Preferred 411 is the largest, I believe. Room Service 2000 is another, and it is cheaper, though I think it is very regional (big in Chicago, but not so much elsewhere).
P411 also has provider listings and if you look for those that say newbie friendly, they will see you once you are P411 screened.
I am relatively new and had the same difficulties as you finding that first provider. I found a well-reviewed veteran provider on TER and emailed her. We exchanged some emails, and i called her on her TER listed number. We talked on the phone and she took a chance on me. After i met her, she gave me a reference, I became Preferred411 and Date Check approved and now I am golden.
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