I'm super concerned about herpes, etc...but I love to DATY (but not with a provider, yet) and have thus far avoided it.  Anyone ever use protection while giving oral?  Does it suck as bad as I imagine it would?  Would the girl be offended/turned off?  

I would assume yes, but just wondering.

Hi there,
Dental dams are great for protection.  You can look them up on line and they are also available at most sex shops. They usually come in flavors so it's all in good fun.
 Most providers know what they are and are fine with safe sex when you're daty. Have a nice week.
xoxo,
Gia Johnson

I can save you a TON of cash.
Just wrap a sandwich in glad wrap and lick that.  Probably will help if you close your eyes.

Seriously, my feeling on dental dams is the same as CBJ, if that is what's on the menu I would rather do without.  And no, I doubt many ladies would be offended if you approach it right and don't make her feel like it's just her.  If you decide to go forth with this abomination (grin) you will likely have to bring your own, as I don't think many ladies "stock" them.

I love to daty too.... I use dental dams a lot, but admit that it's really not that great mostly just because I have to lift it up to take a look at her vagina....but I still like the contact.

I mean, yeah okay, if you brought one I'd let you use it, but I just don't think it would do anything for me, so if it's pleasure you're aiming for you might be better off skipping that one. Would I be offended? Nah, not really. There are guys who don't want to DATY at all, whatever.

So far as herpes- always be sure to look closely at her lips to make sure she doesn't have any fever blisters (i.e., herpes), which can be transferred oral-to-genital and vice versa.

And off-topic, sort of, did y'all know that chicken pox and mono are forms of herpes?




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only give daty if they offer BBBJ , problem solved on your end!

I'm kidding . I've given daty to those that only do CBJ, but as most know that like it, its more about not being able to control NOT wanting to do it, it's very erotic, and sensual.

-M

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Use dental dams.
Put lube on her side, and if you want to, flavored lube on your side.
They also make garter-like garments that clip on the dental dams, so you don't have to hold it up the whole time with your hands.

I have used dental dams before.  For me, they feel the same when I receive oral, but when I've given oral to a lady with a dental dam, it's definitely a different sensation.

Maybe if you do it enough, you can fetishize the latex...  

Perhaps you could give her a call, if not just for the sake of doing due diligence.

She is a tiny and petite asian gal with alot of rules but always gets great reviews, so she must do something right.

I've never felt a need for a side arm while doing it.