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MrMark3517 2219 reads
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If you were ask to come to an office for a first meeting would that be alright with you? It would be after hours so no one working there. It's not a fancy place either, just an old office building. Just wondering if this kinda request would be alright.

Serene Brennan1117 reads

and I did it once or twice in my early days..

But, I wouldn't do it now. Not with someone I have never met.

Here is why:

I prefer gentlemen. Gentlemen prefer discretion and comfort. I can provide a comfy and discreet atmosphere, or you can. I do not consider 'doing' it on the floor, the desk, or an old beatup couch as comfy OR discreet. It is (in my mind) only one small step above a cardate... Which I have NEVER and will NEVER do..

I am not saying that you are NOT a gentleman.. You probably have, like many others, a fantasy about the taboo of sex at work...

My suggestion would be to find a lady you are interested in, and experience a few incall dates.. If you are BOTH comfortable, and she has developed a feeling of trust and like for you, then pop this question...

Asking a lady you have never met to do this would result in either her ignoring you completely, OR you might get what you want, but not from someone you would probably feel comfortable knowing where your work is afterwards... Just my .02 for what it is worth.

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mrfisher1905 reads

someone else will show up with their provider!

8o)

Don't be a piker, rent a room.

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JustAGal1538 reads

Check is in the mail ain't gonna do it :)

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MrMark35171295 reads

Well you can stop by the office, after work hours of course.

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maturebridgette1576 reads

I have done a few in offices.. Here in Manhattan, you will see coporate offices have lounge areas and such for people who need to get a project in on time or something, and they sleep there overnight.

also done the desk thing :)

-- Modified on 1/13/2010 3:38:46 PM

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SweetJaneHR1433 reads

Yeah, it's not so comfy and someone might walk in, but I suppose that's why I like screwing in an office.  Blinds open, if that's okay with him.  

Even better is showing up during business hours in a suit for an "appointment."  This isn't for the attached gentleman who wants to avoid rumors...  But the times I've done it were hot, hot, hot.

Related Link: These windows are mirrored, right?

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rbotha1960 reads

I was a little nervous at first but the client assured me that everyone else would be gone by the time I got there. It worked out and he became a regular client for over a year.

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shudaknownbetter785 reads

OK, I'm a guy...  and this might be your fantasy...  but I would not even think of asking a First Date in an empty old office building after hours.  Maybe you are the boss & you want to do it on the sexytaries desk.  OK.  Just not on the first date.  
There is enough going on, on the First to get aquainted & be sure you are safe & compatible.  Heck, you'e not even going to get to discuss sex before the meeting.
Make it a subsequent date after you know each other.
skb

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MrMark35172000 reads

I just found TER a few months ago and think it is awesome how you all give advice. dddbade, I am glad you had a good laugh, sorry about you coffee.

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Sinful11029 reads

in offices and once at a preschool that the client owned.  The key, make sure there is a comfortable place for your appointment in the office.  Carpet burns aren't fun... lol

Honestly, it depends on the provider.

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