I know what I'm asking may sort of be common questions a noob will ask, but I'm getting a little bit (not a whole lot) nervous... so now I'm here asking questions that I thought I would never.

1) the escort I'm seeing hasn't had a review in 5 months, but she has about 7 pages worth of reviews - all good. i'm just hoping she isn't working with LE to get a reduction in time or something (most likely not but.. you know, the idea pops up). it's just me being stupid right?

2) another LE question.. i've read it before, but i'm still not quite sure about it... but if I'm ultra discrete and nothing is directly said (and of course i bring my envelope with me), can LE do anything? i think the answer is no, but since the law is tricky, i'm not 100% sure.

TIA

-- Modified on 8/11/2008 2:57:36 PM

Hi Mistabeo!
Your concerns are all common, I think.  I've met friends that were literally shaking. As an SP, I try to make sure nothing is ever discussed except which package he would prefer and then I verify him. The first time is always nerve wracking.
Remember, you're only paying for her companionship, right? Maybe you two will hit it off and have chemistry blowing fireworks into the sky.  Who's to say what two consenting adults can or can not do.
Enjoy yourself.
xx
Leah

Thanks!

Another thing that concerns me is that she doesn't verify my references. That's what actually bothers me the most, but she has 7+ pages of reviews so I'm thinking that I have little to worry about.

Anybody have the answers to my questions by the way?

-- Modified on 8/11/2008 3:34:11 PM

Relax and enjoy, it is always a little intimidating at first. Seven pages of positive reviews, I would not worry. Have fun! Let us know how it goes.

1 month ago I had my first visit - I just finished visit 7 today.  When I got started I was extremely concerned about LE.  I am not a lawyer, but I am extremely paranoid so I put plenty of thought into your questions.

Q1 - highly unlikely but not impossible.
Q2 - cops can do ANYTHING once you fall into their hands.  you can make it harder for them by not talking but they have been known to stretch the truth to get convictions.  If they nab you with a provider and your little envelope you are in trouble.  Don't let that happen.  You are doing the right thing by research and seeing a well reviewed provider.  

Relax and enjoy.  I bet a month from now you will be satiated, broke and free of legal hassles.

#1. Assuming that she's an independent, your fears are likely just that...fears.  She's got too many reviews to be a pure setup, and the likelihood that a bust would unravel that badly is quite low.

#2. Don't let it get to this, and it won't matter.  If you're there and it happens, they'll do everything possible (not worrying about the law, btw) to get you to incriminate someone.  Keep your wits about you, but once again...make sure that you don't find yourself in that situation.

Oh, and have fun!!!

Take a deep breath and know you have done your homework. I can't imagine you being any safer than with the lady you chose. 7 pages of good reviews on TER makes her a wonder women in my book.

Now comes your time to see when french kissing turns into deep french kissing.

Relive the moments and when you get to deep french kissing smile and remember how wonderful it was.

Now you can write your first review. I can't wait to read it.

Have fun and enjoy
Kisses Haley

thanks. it might be kind of weird too, because she's a milf and i'm 20 years her junior. i hope it's not awkward lol.

And i'm off to bed so i'll be dreaming of you tonight.

Just relax and enjoy.

If she's GFE and she knows your age it will be great. No, it will be better than great.

Sweet dreams
Kisses Haley

oh she does, she seemed kind of shocked about it, and i think she kinda lol'd. i think she'll be fine with it, but it might be weird for her too, since she was shocked about it. we'll have to see

-- Modified on 8/11/2008 9:39:53 PM

We all go through our first hobby encounter at one point.  Now is your turn.  Read up on her rules, make sure you shower before you leave home, and don't forger the envelope.  Feel free to speak up if you walk in feeling nervous.  Not only will the provider will know how to address that, she will make sure you walk out smiling.

Post your review afterwards, so we'll know how good she is.

Benjamin Braddock (aka Dustin Hoffman)

Let us know how it goes.

lol yeah, i'll definitely report back to you guys how my experience with "mrs. robinson" goes. man i'm starting to get the butterflies!

-- Modified on 8/12/2008 12:21:24 PM

just back from my first experience. overall, it was okay. can't complain too much. i'd give her 6/8. i'm thinking next time i should try a younger spinner type. gonna work on posting my review now

so how many people here think my first review will go through or will it be rejected?

-- Modified on 8/12/2008 6:53:15 PM

Go ahead and write your review and see what happens. If both of you were newbies it might be a problem but one of you is an experienced TER member.

I'll be checking but give me a shout anyway.

Kisses Haley

wow, my first review went through without a hitch... i guess i wasn't a complete noob

A couple of tips for your next search.  First of all, congratulations on your first session and review.  Nice review, by the way.

Now, when you look at a profile with 10 pages of reviews, you want to look back and see the dates of the first reviews.  In Samantha's case, she was first reviewed in 2002.  This is important because, at TER, the profile is not automatically updated by subsequent reviews unless the provider turns out to be a ripoff.  

Once created, Profile information can only be updated by the provider upon request (except contact information through the Problem Report System). So, in this case, Samantha, herself, would have had to request that the fields about photos be updated, and the chances of that are not very good.

So, as you said in your review, her pictures are about 8 years old, which is in keeping for them being accurate when wokf reviewed her in September, 2002.  And even then, he gave her a 7 in looks.

Also, when looking over all 10 pages, she received roughly 60% scores of 6's or 7's.  That should tell you a lot.  On her top page, she received 7 7's and two 8's.  The difference between a 6, which you gave her, and a 7, which she usually receives is, IMHO, pretty much a toss up.

So some learning points could be that you look at the whole review history, understand that profile information, once created, is mostly controlled by the provider, and account for time changing some things that the provider may not want to change on the profile, particularly with regards to appearance.

Overall, your experience is in keeping with her general review history. The performance scores and description matches what most others have written.

Good luck

You did really good for a first time.  You got some great tips about not being disappointed with her looks.  One one thing that I would never do is "come on her pussy".  Boobs, ass, mouth, almost anywhere but there.  You never know how good a swimmer might be in the group.  Am I the only one that thinks this is a bad habit to start.