I'm wanting to see a provider but i'm really nervous about getting caught and nervous sexually.  I can't perform at all if i'm this way.  Has anyone experienced this?  Did the girl "ease you into the experience".  Also does showing or saying your nervous imply guilt to any LE that might be watching?  As opposed to the confident dude that naturally acts like her boyfriend?

My first was a very hot almost 19 y/o, and I had problems performing.   She, like pretty much all providers, was very understanding, and helped me consummate the date, if you catch my drift.  Even after over 100 encounters, I am still nervous when seeing a new-to-me provider.  Only advice I can give, is to just relax as much as you can and enjoy the experience.  If you are seeing a well-reviewed provider, LE should not be a serious concern.  She has just as much, if not more, to lose as you do.

Swim

I would just tell her that you are nervous.  Trust me, your not the first guy she's ever seen that was nervous.  These ladies are professionals - they know  what the "fuck" they are doing and can usually figure out pretty quickly what it's going to take to make you less nervous.  Some guys like to talk a little bit, some guys like to have a little backrub.  

What get's me over the nerves the best is a good blowjob - especially if you are worried about LE!!

mature (MILF type) lady.  As a rule, these ladies have a better skill set to help you overcome your anxiety.  A lot of the girls in their 20's just want to get you off without the GFE experience.  HINT:  Ladies please not I have generalized rather than say "all" of either type.  

I basically look at a date similar to an athletic contest, when I was younger.  Regardless of how many games I had played, there was always a certain amount of butterflies until the game started and I did something.  Relax and enjoy.

IF LE is in the room with you, you're in deep shit, whether you're nervous or not. Take every else's
advice, you'll be fine. Good luck

I had read all the reviews and hints so I had some idea what to expect. When I arrived at her incall we spent several (seemed like hours) minutes just talking and getting to know one another. She was aware that it was my first time and I made sure I reminded her. I think the expression I used was that I "felt like a 16 year old on his first date". Eventually we wound up in the bedroom where the famous question "do you want to get comfortable?" was asked and things proceeded from there. After a backrub and a front rub and a BBBJ, I was finally able to relax enough to get an erection. Tried for some covered penetration but "Mr. Happy" wasn't going to cooperate. The upside was that she didn't care or pressure me. She just said that there are other ways to please each other and we cuddled and talked for the rest of our time. Then I went home and rubbed one out to make sure things still worked.

Fast forward a month. Same provider. Opens door and I walk in. We kiss and I start carressing her. She is commando under her dress. ALL clothes come off quickly. Move to bedroom, BBBJ, DATY, several positions. HAPPY ENDING (not with a handjob), big smiles on both participants.

I guess the most important thing I can tell you is.... She knows what she is doing... RELAX and let nature take its course. I have never regreted my decision.

It's normal. Accept it as that and don't be concerned about it. The worrying over it is what makes things worse. The ladies know about guys being nervous especially a guy on his first visit. I'm still nervous on the first visit with lady. Occasionally I'm a little nervous even if I've seen them several times. I chalk that up to anticipation. The provider won't be concerned if your nervous. Don't let that be a concern to you. I agree that seeing an older provider the first few times would be a good way to help with the nerves. Someone that you can relate to in other ways.

I have had a couple guys that were VERY nervous...

The one was a younger guy... sweet...but tense....I did my best but he still seemed nervous... thought I failed...untill he booked another appointment with me.. He was much better the 2nd time...

Had another guy who was very nervous...my age... and within 5 to 10 min I had him laughing. I am sure it is something that is common and can occur with anyone.

Just do your reasearch and find someone you think you can be comfortable with. She should be able to make you relax and enjoy yourself.

Best of luck

take the pressure off yourself by not expecting yourself to perform.  You need to believe that, if you can't get it up, or can't complete, it's just because of "first-timer" nerves that most people have.  As someone said, the second time will be better, if not the third.  If you want/need to do it, just do it and enjoy the journey.

had absolutely no problems, everything went spectacularly.

Swim

Not COMPLETELY nervous and yes the second visit makes it way better .

I still have the butterflies, and just want to remain a gentleman at all times with the ladies . Hate to just stare at the incredible beauty in front of me - it's not kind to do in public ,BUT I have to tell myself that this is WHY she is here with me, and I am PAYING for it . Still difficult , but that mindset helps at least.

Women love compliments !!!  Make them sincere and maybe that will help . I tell them I am just breathless with the cleavage you have - They then make sure I get an eyeful with a sexy smile to boot . It's knowledge they like and use as a weapon against you - AND I LOVE IT !!!

These are just things that are honest and can be good icebreakers for the both of you . Think how nervous she might be when you knock on the door - natural as you could be ANYBODY so I am sure her heart races for a second as well.

Just be a gentleman and yourself and you will do fine .

MY newbie issue ....I have 2 ladies and 5 visits beteewn the 2 ...............I have yet to orgasm !  Just can't seem to let go and enjoy - I have no idea why !!!  Its really baffeling me as I am turned on like no other, but I huff and I puff and just can't seem to orgasm - noting medical but for sure in my mind . TThinking maybe this hobby is not for me but going to try a few more times and possibly move on and accept it .
Hope this issue does not happen to you but you are perfectly normal as we ( men ) are usually nervous.
Be yourself and have fun !!!

I was so tense the whole time, she just kept telling me to relax, and enjoy yourself.

I find I am apprehensive when seeing a new girl for the first time. But, for me that apprehension kind of makes the anticipation build for me a little more than if I am seeing a provider I have been with before. Its a risk-taking thing with me, I guess. Anyone else find this to be true?

you to answer--are you in good physical shape for your age, are you well rested, well hydrated, mentally relaxed, etc.?  Sexual satisfaction is sometimes more mental than physical.  Either case, enjoy the journey.

Every time I see a new lady, I pop a blue pill. Once I am comfortable, I have no need for such assistance. But the first time, and sometimes even the second time, it does help to have that pharma boost. It eliminates the worry that you won't be able to perform and it results in a much better time for me and for her, I would assume. (No matter what a lady says, they all feel like it is their fault if you can't get it up. They feel like they aren't hot enough or good enough in the sheets to turn you on.) Blue pill solves your problem and hers.

and the provider see's it right away. If you're honest from the get go and tell them you're a newbie, they usually know what to do from there. The providers I've been with started off slow and let things happen naturally. I think this is the way to go. Also, get your rest and drink liquids. In this case let the little head take over, the big head just gets in the way.

I always am, though it has improved with experience.  
I agree with the MILF concept...  +/- 30 with enoough experience with newbies.

Happy Hobbying
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