Hi Guys,
I'm kinda new to all this in the socal region. I've called the provider a few times (silo) and I keep on getting a the voicemail after the phone rings. . Should I keep calling back or wait for a return call? Do I need to get on the approved list down here in socal?
Thanks.

Did you leave a message stating that it was okay to return your call when she gets the message?Most providers will not return your call unless you specify.We do not know if you have that luxury to answer your phone at anytime.Discretion is key a lady would not want to get you in trouble by calling you back later.Do not keep calling her obviously she is busy I would advise leaving a message or maybe try to contact her by email if this option is available.I do not know what you mean by an approved list.
Good luck!

J is right on with her post. If she has an email address, you might try that. Some ladies don't answer their phones during the day and as J mentioned if you don't leave a specific message, the escort will not call back. However, with an email, she should get back to you in 24 to 48hrs.  If you haven't taken a look already, you might want toread the "self help center"  on the FAQ for newbies board.

Some providers are very professional about it.  Others are just plain ditzy.  The latter type will get back to you when and if she pleases.  If she's not rated, it's just one more sign that maybe you should move on, preferably to one that is rated.  

It actually started going straight to her voicemail so I guess I should assume that she is off today. This is my my first time so it's hard trying to find someone with a more lenient screening process. Thanks for all the replies~

I appreciate that the ladies want to be sensitive to our home lives, not get us in trouble.  Leaving a time to call me back is best.  

But wouldn't I be an idiot for leaving a number that was not okay for her to call?

Now if she gets my number from her caller id when I've not left it in my message, as has happened to me, then I have a problem.

you've arrived at her hotel and you need to know her room number. Whatever means you've communicated to get to that point is secondary. That crucial final call needs to be taken very seriously, and sometimes that's why they don't put a lot of importance on responding to other calls.

participate, too, just like wheelchair ramps do for other challenged folks. Plus, in the absence of a callback time, she can't be sure it isn't an able-minded fellow suffering a lapse of mindfulness. Not that I would know anything about that.

Thanks again for the tips guys

There are also a lot of guys who do leave the infamous message, "Hi, I'm calling to see if you're available, I'm sure my number is on your caller ID, call me back!"...  if you had any idea how many of those I got in a week, lol. First, if she has a website, check her calendar to make sure she's even available that day, check to see what her hours are... then place the call, & if no answer, leave a callback number & time frame that she can return your call. If you haven't heard back from her w/in that time frame, & it's still w/in her "working" hours, then you can try back... just don't call back to back to back... this will almost definitely make her never answer for you.