I am a new in here. Next year, I am gonna graduate and want to enjoy my life at its highest. I heard about these escorts and they can ride you to the extent as you see in porn ..I was like wha.??? I dont want to date a real girl Partly I dont want to date a real bitch and then get worried about the dram she will be bringing in and headache. I am just 23 and there is plenty of time to get settled with right girl. I don't want any bitch to take care of me and say the most fooling thing "I love you' on every now. All I wanted is to get laid and I know on a real date this requires patience and have no patience for it. So now I am all excited for graduation and take a break from my work and go for a real life PSE or GFE and ................. But I am worried about STDs and how people of high end esorts manage to do without a thumb for worry than a loser spending a night with a hoe at bar. Please I am severy anxious about STDs and this is somewhat depressing. Thanks

Yes one should always be concerned about STDs but in our community, they're LESS and not more. Your local hooker knows all there is to know about STDs. She's a businesswoman. She's not willing to put herself or her product at risk.

The spelling and lack of coherence makes me think that you are not who you say you are. MIT engineer? Really? Doing some research on STDs and P4P should be second nature then. Anyway, to answer your question:
1. yes, real dating requires more effort (and if you are a douche bag it can be very hard, I'm sure you know that already. lol)
2. no, high end escorts do not have STDs. They cannot afford to risk their health. When you are making more in an hour than many make in a week, your health/body is too precious. High end escorts take the utmost caution to never expose themselves to any unsafe clients and get screened regularly.
3. yes, you can try and pay for a date, but with your current attitude there's a good chance that the only "hoes" that will be willing to see you are the ones offering $80 specials in a back alley. No high end escort will tolerate any disrespectful behavior. So either adjust your behavior, or yes, get used to the thought of getting an STD.
Just a "hoe's" 2 cents.

Hey Guys,

I am a 23 year old virgin who has never kissed a girl. I have VIP TER and want to see a escort. What would you consider is a high end escort like 1000/hr or more than 1500/hr. If so I would be interested in seeing one lol since I totally suck at talking to girls all I can ask them about are classes and sports lol major fail. Any tips or advice would be greatly appreciated. So high end escorts don't have STD's. What about $500/hr or $800/hr would they have STD's.

Thanks,

Tom

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You are more likely to pick up an STD from the hot chick you picked in a bar last night than you are from a well-reviewed provider any day.  That is regardless of whether she charges 200/hr or 1500/hr.  This is how they make their living and they are smart enough to stay clean, or they are out of business.  Higher price does not decrease your chances of catching something, it only drains your wallet faster.

If you would rather spend 1500 than 200, by all means, go ahead and do it.  I find it rather unusual that a 23 yo guy has that kind of discretionary cash on hand, but if you do, go for it.  Just remember, instead of one for 1500, you can have 5 300 providers.  I know what I would choose.

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You have to have sex to catch an STD and after reading your post I am pretty sure there is not a single lady on this board that would come within a 1000 feet of your sorry attitude.

You've been posting pretty much the same post several times this week.  You're 23, virgin, want to get laid, nervous, don't know what to do.

You have cash and VIP TER.  So, I assume you are doing your homework.  By now, you should have a few choices of well reviewed women.  Pick one.  I know you're first time, you'll be a little nervous.  We all are the first time or two.

Personally, I've wondered what my experience would be like with a $1000 provider vs. a $300 provider.  My personal belief is that you would only be paying strictly for beauty or her name (if she's an actress) for the most part.  I would have to assume at such a high price her service better be damn good or else she wouldn't have regulars and good reviews.

Having dropped $650 once for a provider I can say I had a great time with her.  But, I can also say I have had better times with others who charge less.

Unfortunately, there's not a search filter on TER to look for providers with or without STDs.  That's why everyone involved uses protection.  If you're really concerned don't kiss lips above or below the waist.  But, by and large providers who are not walking the streets or working truck stops are clean.

Love it!

I'm afraid there is no particular price point at which providers care more about their safety and reputation than anything else. A few years ago high end used to be $1,000/hr and up, but after the economy has tanked and the majority of providers had to adjust their rates, most would consider $500/hr high end in the majority of US cities. The highest price is not alway the best, but you will notice a difference between $250/hour and $600/hour (let's not even compare the $50 special, which could be traumatizing if it's your first time ever with a woman.)

For a virgin, I think the most important thing is to give yourself enough time. Find an established provider who is willing to see you and book 2 hours of her time. (Any more than that can be troublesome if there is no chemistry.) Let her walk you through the experience. You will spend more time talking, getting comfortable the first time, which is how it should be. After that, booking an hour might work better for you, only you will know.

Also, some men gain a lot of confidence from losing their V card and become almost instantly better at dating / approaching women, but most get addicted to P4P. You've been warned. Good luck.

You can only learn that by reading her reviews to see what's on her menu and what  isn't.  Do not ask beforehand because she will break off contact, assuming you may be LE.  As for Nevada, prostitution is legal only in the smaller cities, not in Las Vegas.  Providers advertise through their web sites because it's a good way to do business.  Yes,  cops will track them, but cops leave most  indy girls alone and more often go after agencies.  You don't need to worry about LE if you go with a well reviewed girl who has a good screening process.  It protects you both.

And you're creating more work for everyone by adding different sorts of questions than the original query.

As far as you should be concerned, $300-$500 is the 'median' rate in a big city for an escort. It can go down to $200 to about $700 based on geography (as far as a national 'average' goes) and still be considered normal. In fact, if you pay attention to the news at all, that range is actually what is generally considered by the media to be a "high end callgirl."

$1000-$1500 is generally "Very high end" and if you're in that budget range, I recommend (After you read the newbies, the FAQs, guides, etc. because your questions are very naive at this time) perusing the Porn Star board because you are within that price range.

Finally, all the women in the price ranges I have described above will follow the STD-aversion discussed by others in this thread. Stay away from BP (backpage), see only well reviewed ladies, don't engage in any risky behaviors they taught you to avoid in sex ed, and you should be fine.

1. Learn how to write. You're not helping yourself much by making about 2-3 grammatical/spelling mistakes a sentence. You have a barrier for entering this hobby if you are in your twenties. This reason is the following: the ladies feel a lot safer with men that don't act like immature punks. Your goal in almost any communications related to the hobby (be it a board post, an email, a text, etc.) should be to put your best foot forward. Otherwise, there is the presumption that, because of your age, you are an a childish prick. It is in your interest to do everything possible to thwart that presumption. If you don't have the patience for that, you probably will not have much luck in the hobby. I'm only a few years older than you and can tell you that this is what I learned from experience and research. It's a great compliment if you ever receive a comment like "from your email, I thought you were a 50 year old business man. But, you're young, funny, and awesome..." from a lady when you finally have had the chance to meet her.

2. For the legal aspects, search this board and the legal board. All these have been covered ad nauseum.

3. Prostitution is legal in the small counties of Nevada (not Clark, where LV is nor Washoe county, where Reno is) and then only in legal, licensed, brothels. Therefore, an escort, street walker, call girl, what have you is still not legal to see in Nevada. If your concern is STDs, you'll be happy to know that the industry is heavily regulated. They get tested for STDs weekly and HIV monthly. There has never been a recorded case of STD transmission in the Nevada brothel system since the current regulations were implemented. (the caveat to this is that, with all the corruption in Nevada culture, there is probably a good chance that some cases of non-HIV transmission were covered up/paid to disappear) One aspect of regulation that many hobbyists here bitch about is the fact that technically the law states that all sexual contact must be covered. However, YMMV in this aspect. Still, CFS and CBJ is the norm. DATY will generally be uncovered. Finally, as with all legal things, the prices will jump. Expect to pay between 5x to 10x+ more than you would with a TER lady.  Also, because of the publicity of the brothel system there is a fear of advertising bringing federal changes of solicitation across state lines. Therefore, there are no fixed prices and those are negotiable. A lady could charge me three times less or three times more than she charged you because of her preferences, daily mood, superstitions, or current financial situation.

4. Having a website devoted to prostitution isn't itself a crime. Also, police don't have the resources to bust everyone. Craigslist is mostly in trouble because of allegations of supporting human trafficking. Slavery, especially sexual slavery, is not cool. There were a lot of shady, trashy, things happening on Craigslist. Since it was a central hub for this type of activity, the commotion caused authorities to take serious notice. Also, since many CL ladies don't screen or use any measures that keep the hobby safe for all they were also easy targets for stings.

5. DO YOUR RESEARCH. Pretty much all your questions are asked here on almost a weekly basis. If you truly are an engineer, you should be used to doing homework. Read this board back about 5 pages, read the Newbie FAQs and get familiar with your local board. Next to STDs, the impact of a run-in with Law Enforcement should also be on your mind. You don't want your name showing up in a news report about a sting. You're too young to deal with that shit, so don't be stupid

Thanks for all your replies. I am not concerned about Nevada. I meant in general. If you live in Chicago or in Dallas, how would you meet a provider nearby? Is it safe in terms of legal and health? Also, if we use protection, there would be no room for STDs even with PSEs, right? I am looking forward to those. All these years of porn and masturbation really made me horny to do all sorts of adventures in sex.

Your question has been answered. Even only one section of one of my posts was limited to Nevada.

How would you meet a provider nearby? If you haven't figured that out yet, refer to my advice: read the FAQs, read this board. If you continue to be lazy, you will not get any responses.

Protection? Didn't you take sex ed and math? Take the likelihood of contracting an STD based on the method of protection and the type of activity you are planning on engaging in. Determine how often you will be engaging. Do some multiplication. Again, safety comes from knowledge.

Horny? Make sure it doesn't make you stupid. Letting all the blood rush out of your big head will get you where you don't want to be - into trouble with LE and with a couple of STD's if not worse. This whole community is about learning the ropes, procedures, and knowing how to research (there's that word again) well.

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