Newbie - FAQ

It's pretty common
Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 710 reads
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1 / 12

Some providers prefer not to see men of certain ethnicity. Is it common?  I don't know how common it is but it will happen.  Best to move on to another provider.

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 626 reads
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2 / 12

...regional boards and the General Discussion board as well.

It also works the other way as well.  African American providers have discussed how the business is more difficult for them.

zoinksdude 38 Reviews 1887 reads
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3 / 12

I recently tried to book a provider from the banned website on TER. But they rejected me based on my ethnicity. Is this a common thing or is this booker just being a tool?

Sorry if this is a repeated question asked, I tried to search first but didn't find anything.

zoinksdude 38 Reviews 588 reads
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4 / 12

Thanks for the response. Didn't know the hobby did things like this. I find it still a little weird. Thanks!

TheInsuranceMan 420 reads
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5 / 12

I came across this more with the Backpage ads but the ladies I've seen from TER have been great. As a young AA man I'm a walking red flag I guess...

But honestly don't sweat it plenty of quality girls to see who don't care about race. Green is the most important color in this biz.

swimtrekr 59 Reviews 427 reads
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6 / 12

Many providers will not see guys of certain ethnicities, but there are plenty who will see you.  Keep looking, my friend.

Swim

bluepillman 483 reads
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7 / 12

Just because they are getting paid doesnt mean they dont have the right to sleep with who they want. You will see you will, for the most part, be able to choose your preference in race in the hobby. Shouldnt the provider have the same choice?

Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 413 reads
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8 / 12

You are dealing with living breathing women here, not some sort of machine.  Just as we as customers have our preferences on who we want to see the ladies have those preferences as well.

hiddenhills 143 Reviews 399 reads
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9 / 12

not just concerning clients, but services and every other aspect of the date. Remember this  little world is a microcosm of the big world. We've got all types. As others have suggested, simply move on.

Businesses 22 Reviews 389 reads
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10 / 12

I remember reading about an Asian provider who won't see Vietnamese or Japanese men, so the booker has to ask what ethnicity you are.
Rejection based on ethnicity is more common for AA guys.

Also, some providers won't see clients under a certain age, but will sometimes make an exception.

Best thing to do is just move on, as the others have mentioned.
Plenty of fish in the sea!

-- Modified on 12/20/2012 7:02:30 PM

crazyshit 383 reads
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11 / 12

They are under no obligation to see any Tom, Dick and Harry who can pay their entrance fees.

zoinksdude 38 Reviews 314 reads
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12 / 12

Thanks everyone for their input. Didn't think I would get a good amount of replies.

I have some more perspective into why they reject certain men now. I will move on and keep my head up. *zing*

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