ladies ask every question to "verify" a hobbiest.  Why is it not our business if it is a criteria to determine if we will spend our money on a lady.  why is it that virtually every other question is fair game, but somehow this one is taboo.  Bet it's only the High Volume pro's that are offended to answer.  Would you ask your home builder if they were a custom or tract home builder.

And WHY you were turned down probably has nothing to do with her having another appointment.  Providers are people who have lots of other things going on in their lives.  Sometimes they aren't even busy at all, they just want some piece and quiet, or maybe they just aren't interested in seeing you.  I've been turned down lots of times, but have seen most those women at some future time.

If this is something you're looking for and it is important to you, there are several ways you can glean the information without asking the straight-up-nearly-sure-to-be-offensive question regarding the number of clients a lady sees on an average day.  

1)  You can check how often reviewed she is.
Understand that not every client writes reviews but if she's racking up 5-10+ per month, chances are she's higher volume than a lady who averages one review a month.

2) Content of reviews.
By reading the full review, you can glean whether or not the interactions tend to last an hour... or a weekend.  It stands to reason that if the dates tend to be longer in length, she likely has fewer of them as having any sort of personal life in the midst of dinner/overnight/weekend dates is much less likely than when the dates are of shorter duration.

3) Rates.
Not a guarantee by any means, but it stands to reason that the lower a lady's rate is - the more accessible she is in terms of the "average" hobbyist being able to afford her.  The chances are that if more gents can afford her time, more gents *will* afford her time.  Also, she likely needs to spend more time working in order to meet whatever her goals are.  Logically (though, again, no guarantee), the higher a lady's rates are, the fewer clients can/do afford her and the fewer gents she needs to see to meet her goals.

4) Rate structure.
Pretty simple in that if she advertises half hours and her standard date length 'menu' ends at 90 min, chances are she tends to run her business in shorter increments and likely needs volume to create profit.  If date lengths start at dinner and go to weekends, chances are the opposite.

From what I have noticed, the ladies who are lower volume often use this as a selling point and do not mind the volume question.  The ladies who tend to take offense... well, I won't speculate on why this is as it implies a judgement of how they choose to run their business or what their demographic offers. Let's just say that for whatever reason, it's considered uncouth to them.

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I have an "impulse" rate, but I don't DO impulse providing. Because I don't maintain a permanent incall, I need time to arrange one - and then only in the days that I can. Hence, appointments are necessary.

I have a civie job that's nearly full-time now, so I work my providing schedule around that. Most days now it's "outcall only" for me. My energy and enthusiasm levels for this "work" makes it feel like play all the time, but time is the one thing I don't have as much as I'd like to devote to providing, so I am low volume as a result.

Hope that makes sense.