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swimtrekr 58 Reviews 928 reads
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post a review.  If not, post on your regional board and/or the reviewers only board.  You can't do a review if the session did not take place, but you can make it known on your local board that you got ripped off.

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jeff1966_2001 24 Reviews 2350 reads
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For safety reasons, I prefer a CBJ when meeting with a provider. But I am always worried that the provider may be offended by that request. Has anyone received a negative reaction when requesting a CBJ? When would be the appropriate time to let it be known? Right at the beginning? Just before she goes down there? It seems like a mood killer regardless. I'd like to hear the thoughts and suggestions from providers as well. Thanks.

flyinglow1 1546 reads
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3 / 12

Not sure on your question,but how do I post getting ripped off from an out call provider called GFE

It happen last night

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Yasodhara See my TER Reviews 1458 reads
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It's no big deal.  Believe me this is nothing compared to other requests we've heard.  And it's not the mood killer of bad hygiene.  Just say it.

Caroline2010 See my TER Reviews 826 reads
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She won't hate you for asking for a cover, but she won't be very happy if she only brought pre-lubed condoms. Eck!

If you ever have a special request, the time to ask is always before you meet!

SinsOfTheFlesh See my TER Reviews 689 reads
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just be polite about it and let her know you feel more comfortable with a cover for everything. Trust me, although this is a rare request, it is a breath of fresh air compared to the bozo's who hint around about BBFS. I suppose it may offend some ladies to be asked to use a cover, but I doubt it. Its all about your comfort level. If you are busy worrying about STD's there is no way you can enjoy yourself.

As to timing, as she is going down is probably the best time. Yes, it might put a damper on the mood momentarily, but only for a moment. Definitely don't mention your preference when you initially contact her. That would cross the line into discussing services.

JennyDeMilo See my TER Reviews 747 reads
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Though you want her to be prepared, its not good to talk about anything sexual before the session you might spook her.  just in case bring a non lubed condom with you.

Just ask after you are both naked. "i prefer a cbj" simple as pie.

Caroline2010 See my TER Reviews 7986 reads
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I feel that it should be common sense, but I get a rogue explicit email from a newbie every once in a while.

jeff1966_2001 24 Reviews 442 reads
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Thanks a bunch to all who responded for your helpful suggestions. It makes me feel a lot better knowing that a provider does not find this to be a big deal. Yeah, it will probably mess up the flow a bit, but at least now I know that it won't spoil the whole session.

babydollamor 806 reads
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10 / 12

Look if its that important to you then when you are in the room, just say hey I would feel much more at ease if you would put the old raincoat on the gentleman there, he hates getting wet.  If you are worried about negative reaction from the girl that solves that problem.  She would laugh or chuckle but someone saying those precise words we..... You just can't be made.  Just dont add the its nothing personal phrase.  All that tells me is it is personal but that you are just trying to make it sound nicer, which it never does.  Anyways I am a provider, and I dont view that as a problem.  Everybody has the right to protect there bodies the way that they see fit to do.
                                          Love DOLL

Leslie_Love 932 reads
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all you have to do is ask her to keep the cover on if its a professional provider im sure she wont be offended..if u want to avoid even asking only see girls who offer full service rather then gfe
hope this helps! xo
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