So i have a provider coming to visit me at my hotel but she told me not to check in without het being there.   Its too late. I already checked in did i screw this up?

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I'm starting to think she is not coming. 😐

because to check in while she's standing around is a bit awkward.  

 

I think what she was trying to tell you is that there is a very good chance she's not going to make it, and she doesn't want to feel guilty about you being out the money for the room.

 
I suppose right now, if she is over 30 minutes late and no call, you ought to start calling or emailing around to see if you can find a substitute.

That kind of sucks.

Yeah no call no show feels bad😔

I feel for you. I hate when there are last minute  changes/cancellations especially when you may have planned this all week. Some of us with SO can't just play whenever we want. We need to plan and if a provider cancels we are out of luck until the next time we can arrange to be away. Good luck next time.

Feel for you pal. Better head down to the bar and leave your car keys in the room.