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earthshined 2278 reads
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Does it matter to you when " cup#1" (or maybe for some there is only one per hour) is over?

Specifically, if it occurs in the last 10 minutes, are you getting anxious to be done before time runs out?

I tend to be slow in that regard as l like to talk to providers for a bit, particularly on a first visit.

Naomi_Sweets804 reads

I usually dont offer a second cup unless the guy cums in the first twenty minutes of the session.

If he takes 45 min, then I am not offering a second cup since the second one usually takes a bit longer and he is going to go over his hour trying to get that second cup.    But I do not kick the guy out when there's time left on the clock.  I will rub his back, cuddle, etc with him for a few minutes before either of us gets out of bed.

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earthshined722 reads

you know your first sentence just got me to thinking if one hour is really enough time.

Maybe the saying should be "more is more" not less is more.lol.(Of course, more is MORE expensive too but...)

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WhatUserNameIsntTaken687 reads

Is one hour too little time for a first appointment?  Or do you not want to spend the extra on a multi-hour appointment BECAUSE it's the first time?

I choose the former.  I want to make sure I want a repeat before booking multiple hours.  Doesn't mean I didn't have a damn good time if I choose not to repeat......it's just business.

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macdaddy1944665 reads

i have no idea why newbies worry about cups and time..just enjoy yourself..let things just flow naturally..your session will better for both of you if you didnt watch the clock or have some pre-conceived notion about how many times you will be able to cum..stress free sessions are always the best..

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earthshined631 reads

depending on the lady and situation I don't care if I get one, two or none in an hour.

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earthshined599 reads

I tend to book one hour for first time because the 3 things I worry about with this "hobby" (in order of importance) are:

1.STD
2.The provider is uncomfortable in ANY way.
3.LE/ getting busted.

I can't imagine something happening in the beginning of a 2-3 hour appointment and having to stay for the duration.I don't want it to be awkward if she is not feeling it.

I have had a provider actually tell me they didn't like me/my personality.( maybe it accidentally slipped. she tried to play it off as a joke but I didn't buy it.)It was toward the end of a 2 hour appointment.If it would've been in the beginning, I probably would have left.  


Posted By: WhatUserNameIsntTaken
Is one hour too little time for a first appointment?  Or do you not want to spend the extra on a multi-hour appointment BECAUSE it's the first time?

I choose the former.  I want to make sure I want a repeat before booking multiple hours.  Doesn't mean I didn't have a damn good time if I choose not to repeat......it's just business.

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macdaddy1944535 reads

i doubt this..no provider in her right mind will tell you 'i dont like you'..that is not how they operate..especially with a newbie..

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earthshined545 reads

you were not there.And she didn't use those words you quoted.

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macdaddy1944513 reads

i am just quoting what you stated 'i have had a provider actually tell me they didnt like me'  eom.

Posted By: earthshined
I tend to book one hour for first time because the 3 things I worry about with this "hobby" (in order of importance) are:

1.STD
2.The provider is uncomfortable in ANY way.
3.LE/ getting busted.

I can't imagine something happening in the beginning of a 2-3 hour appointment and having to stay for the duration.I don't want it to be awkward if she is not feeling it.

I have had a provider actually tell me they didn't like me/my personality.( maybe it accidentally slipped. she tried to play it off as a joke but I didn't buy it.)It was toward the end of a 2 hour appointment.If it would've been in the beginning, I probably would have left.  


Posted By: WhatUserNameIsntTaken
Is one hour too little time for a first appointment?  Or do you not want to spend the extra on a multi-hour appointment BECAUSE it's the first time?

I choose the former.  I want to make sure I want a repeat before booking multiple hours.  Doesn't mean I didn't have a damn good time if I choose not to repeat......it's just business.

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nahtynikkey600 reads

Very well stated. If you are looking for a 2nd cup, then you need to ensure that you are done within the amount of time that you have booked. If you are going to go over by 15-20 min, then you should just book 90 minutes to begin with.

Posted By: Naomi_Sweets
I usually dont offer a second cup unless the guy cums in the first twenty minutes of the session.

If he takes 45 min, then I am not offering a second cup since the second one usually takes a bit longer and he is going to go over his hour trying to get that second cup.    But I do not kick the guy out when there's time left on the clock.  I will rub his back, cuddle, etc with him for a few minutes before either of us gets out of bed.

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Ashleyann10661 reads

I would never rush or delay any part of the hour spent together.  I would allow the client to enjoy at his/her own pace without pressure at all.  I aim for complete relaxation and release. I like to catering to the clients needs and desires totally, so the experience leaves them satisfied and playing in back in their head all week:-)  I think this is what most real companions are trying to provide.  

I am not a big clock watcher, but I know some providers are. This could be why they get anxious?  Maybe another appointment? Guessing?  So, maybe if you feel like they are getting anxious just reassure them that you will not be trying to go over time, and you will be respectful to complete the session within the hour, but you like to spend the complete hour and save this until the very end. I think what happens sometimes is that providers especially indy's have clients that stretch out the session until the end in an attempt to stay for another half hour or even hour if they could.  Just explain that you are not going to be that client and I am sure they will relax completely.

Also, if you like to spend more time, especially on the first visit, try booking a multi-hour session.  This will allow you and your provider to take your time and not feel rushed.  This may prove to be a lot more enjoyable.

Not sure if any of this will help?

Good luck

Related Link: http://www.ashleyanntaylor.com

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riorunner420 reads

Wow Ms. Ashleyann!!! I think I'm in love after reading the first part of this post...LOL What a perfect description of what I want my companions to embody. Ever think of visiting the Southwest?

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ArisRose557 reads

Doesn't matter to me.  If you bust early or late I just go back to BBBJ for the rest of the time.

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