...your appointment? I know this varies from person to person, but am wondering what is considered a good/minimal hold out period before your appointment (ex: 2-4 days prior?). What do you guys do? Just so I can essentially stop self-pleasuring a while before, and have a super orgasm and get my money's worth when I meet her

Everyone is different. For me 2 full days works best.

But that's me.  You answered your own question when you said this varies from person to person.  So whatever period of abstention works best for you (and I presume you already know this) in order to maximize sensitivity and potency would seem to be the best approach you can take.

I beat the bishop right before a session. That way no pre -ejac, and I can blow more loads.  I have no problem getting hard.

to rest and recharge.

All kidding aside, and I don't know what Fisher will say to this Q...

Personally, a few hours to 2 days for me.  Too many variables to give one blanket answer.

And the answer is:  It depends.

(And everyone thought I was still not a lawyer. 8o)

Allow me to elucidate:

If I know that I'm going to be seeing a gal who really gets off on me popping a big load on her face or in her mouth, then I will give it at least four or five days of rest to recharge.

On the otherhand, recently I had a couple of back to back Saturday/Sunday sessions and had no trouble performing on Sunday.  I owe it to a good diet and wholesome lifestyle.  8o)

The bottom line is:  Each of us is individual in how our body functions.  Also, the particular gal you see could be a factor.  (Do you remember from your trigonomety class the the angle of the dangle is proportional to the heat of the meat?)

So, experiment.  See what works for you and then make that you rule.

We are all very happy for you...

Sometimes I hold off for a week, sometimes not that long.  It depends on your self-control, I guess.

Have fun,
Swim